Colic is a generic term used to describe the condition of a young baby who cries more than normal. As far as I'm concerned, colic does not really exist. First of all, it is unclear what the normal amount of crying should be. Second, some of this excessive crying is actually caused by the obsession to suppress crying.
Now imagine a trickier situation: She's crying her head off at three in the morning. You know she isn't hungry, because she takes the nipple for a second but then starts kicking you as her face turns red. She does the same when you rock her and sing to her. What's the problem? You've just discovered what all new parents have learned throughout the ages: Every now and then Lucy cries, not because of hunger and not because of a need for closeness but simply because she needs to cry. We associate her horrendous cries with pain or suffering and immediately feel compelled to stop them, but that's not always the best thing to do. For newborns, crying is as much a tension-relieving mechanism as a sign of discomfort.
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Colic is a generic term used to describe the condition of a young baby who cries more than normal. As far as I'm concerned, colic does not really exist. First of all, it is unclear what the normal amount of crying should be. Second, some of this excessive crying is actually caused by the obsession to suppress crying.
Now imagine a trickier situation: She's crying her head off at three in the morning. You know she isn't hungry, because she takes the nipple for a second but then starts kicking you as her face turns red. She does the same when you rock her and sing to her. What's the problem? You've just discovered what all new parents have learned throughout the ages: Every now and then Lucy cries, not because of hunger and not because of a need for closeness but simply because she needs to cry. We associate her horrendous cries with pain or suffering and immediately feel compelled to stop them, but that's not always the best thing to do. For newborns, crying is as much a tension-relieving mechanism as a sign of discomfort.
What to do:
· When you have reasonably exhausted all methods of soothing, leave Lucy to cry in dim light and warmth in the bassinet.
· After ten minutes, you can attempt to soothe her again.
· If she is still frantic, put her back in the bassinet. She'll eventually fall asleep for return to a calmer state. Be prepared for two or three bouts of crying.
What not to do:
Why is my baby crying so hard?
There is only one way for Lucy to cry: She holds her breath, gets all red, and then lets out an ear-splitting shriek, all the while flailing about. It looks intense, especially if you're related to her, but that's just how your average newborn cries.
Could she have a belly pain?
When Lucy cries, you look at her, and the first thing you see is her big belly. Lucy cries by contracting her abdominal muscles, which makes her raise her legs toward her belly. The effect is to create the impression of a bellyache. In fact, this is the origin of the word colic...
Do not give in to temptation to help Lucy get rid of gas by massaging her belly, pumping her legs, or aggressively burping her. This will only bug her even more... Since there's nothing wrong with Lucy, there's no need for colic medications.
I have seen countless babies treated unnecessarily with anti-heartburn medications. In case you haven't noticed, babies always regurgitate some milk. Real reflux is seen in those rare babies who can't hold on to their food after eating and just vomit. They do not usually cry more than the other babies unless they get hungry because they've vomited too much.
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