VENTING......
I have that gut-intuition feeling (I would be dumb to think otherwise) that he is not ever going to change. He has always had everything done for him and I blame his mother. He doesn't do anything!!! All he does is go to work, blow all his money on god knows what-- he doesn't have a dime saved for emergencies such as theone he is going through now (getting laid off), and he doesn't have anything other than a 1,200 mortgage to pay monthly, a cell phone, and loans he's taken out for his debt. He doesn't have a car payment bc his mother paid for the car, he doesn't have insurance on his car which is illegal so, no insurance payments, no electric bill (I pay that one), yet he never has money. He made like $55,000 last year and has NOTHING to show for it. Nothing. I pay the tuition, my car payment, my car insurance payment, electric bill, and everything for baby. Everything! Mind you... I make less than him. Granted, I don't pay part of that mortgage, bc I was always against him getting the place to begin with. I wasn't ready to BUY a property, but he, under his mother's advice, insisted at the time (during my pregnancy) that it was the best idea ever. Now he is stuck with this apartment that we both don't like and that he can barely afford. At least he now admits that it was probably one of the biggest mistakes of his life.
He doesn't take care of anything, and although he DOES NOT SAY THIS, I know it's because he is used to his mother bailing him out of everything. His mother put the down payment on the apartment. Our plumbing has been messed up for months now, and he has never done anything about it bc he doesn't have the money. But now his mother is coming down for 2 weeks, and she told him to call the plumber so that they can come while she is here! I can't live with someone that is like that. Much less a MAN. I want to run away... far far away......................
