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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://babble.com/CS/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Strollerderby : middle class families</title><link>http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/middle+class+families/default.aspx</link><description>Tags: middle class families</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2007.1 (Build: 20910.1126)</generator><item><title>Day Care Enrollments Plummet as Families Struggle to Pay the Bills</title><link>http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2008/11/08/day-care-enrollments-plummet-as-families-struggle-to-pay-the-bills.aspx</link><pubDate>Sat, 08 Nov 2008 23:13:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">42a08a39-daf3-4129-8a63-8a27b879cc03:144629</guid><dc:creator>Hannah Tennant-Moore</dc:creator><slash:comments>8</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=144629</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2008/11/08/day-care-enrollments-plummet-as-families-struggle-to-pay-the-bills.aspx#comments</comments><description>&lt;p&gt;








&lt;a href="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/2008/10/daycare.jpg"&gt;&lt;img src="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/2008/10/daycare.jpg" alt="" width="226" align="right" border="0" height="165" hspace="4" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;New Horizons daycare center just outside of Chicago has seen its enrollment cut by 50
percent in the last three months. And a San
  Gabriel, California
daycare saw its enrollment go from 51 kids last year to 15 this year.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As the economy goes from scary to terrifying, parents around the
country are being forced to &lt;a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20081108/ap_on_bi_ge/meltdown_child_care" target="_blank"&gt;cut back on childcare&lt;/a&gt; or pull their kids out of
daycare altogether, relying instead on extended family or drastic changes to
their own work lives.







&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&amp;quot;It is not about people making choices to drive a
second car,&amp;quot; said Diane Stout, who is the executive director of New
Horizons. &amp;quot;For many low income people it is making a choice for food.&amp;quot; And, with yearly day care costs averaging between $3,380 and
$10,787 for childcare for one preschooler, even middle income families are
being faced with the need to cut back on childcare.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Providers say they
are seeing increased disciplinary problems amongst kids who are stressed by
their families’ financial problems and by the loss of many of their friends in
daycare.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;And many fear that kids will be placed in dangerous
situations as their parents’ desperation increases. Even families who qualify for
aid often don’t bother applying since the waiting list is so long, being forced
instead to put their children in questionable situations while they work to pay
the rent and put food on the table. One woman, was instance, was leaving her
four-year-old daughter in her car while she worked at a shoe store, checking on
her every hour.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;As the executive director of Child Care Solutions, a New York referral agency
put it, &amp;quot;We are driving people into an unregulated system.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Photo: AP &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Related Post:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2008/10/29/is-cutting-the-sitter-s-pay-the-best-way-to-save-money.aspx" target="_blank"&gt;Is Cutting Your Sitter&amp;#39;s Pay the Best Way to Save Money? &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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She&amp;#39;s the author of &lt;i&gt;Parenting, Inc. &lt;/i&gt;and &lt;a href="http://www.babble.com/content/articles/features/dispatches/paul/Hands-Across-America-Is-Baby-Sign-Language-An-Essential_Or-A-Rip-Off/"&gt;Babble contributor with a dispatch this week&lt;/a&gt; that, and perhaps I&amp;#39;m speaking only for myself here, reassured those of us parents who never managed to follow through on the baby sign language classes, thereby condemning our children to low IQs and drool.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Well, she&amp;#39;s digging in deeper to the idea of kids and cost in a recent &lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/04/04/AR2008040403217.html?hpid=opinionsbox1"&gt;Washington Post essay,&lt;/a&gt; where she&amp;#39;s talking about the status of the third child, particularly for those raising their families in expensive cities. Apparently, Baby No. 3 is something of a luxury good. Or, as some would believe, a completely insane, misguided, poorly thought out idea that she and her husband -- New York City dwellers and parents of two -- will nonetheless be adding to their lives. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kids these days are expensive (private schools! nannies! 70 new toys a year!) and they take up precious real-estate. So no wonder, she argues, there&amp;#39;s the perception that a third (or fourth or sixth) child is an achievement bestowed only on the fabulously wealthy. It&amp;#39;s also something people of means are largely doing, rather than the recession-sensitive middle-class. The showoffs! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;From washingtonpost.com&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;It&amp;#39;s true that, following in the designer maternity clothes of such fecund celebrities as Posh Spice (three kids) and Angelina Jolie (speculatively six), most of the people going for a third baby are well-heeled moms and their high-salaried husbands. A February analysis of Current Population Survey data by the Council on Contemporary Families found that in the past 10 years, the top-earning 1.3 percent of the population has seen an uptick in families with three or more children. According to the National Center for Health Statistics, 12 percent of upper-income women had three children or more in 2002, compared with only 3 percent in 1995.&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;She also cites that breathtaking stat that each child costs on average &lt;i&gt;$204,060 to house, clothe, educate and entertain until the age of 18.&lt;/i&gt; (Jeez, my kids are the ones holding THAT number down ...)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So what do you think? Did you trade in financial security and your Birken bag for a third child? Are large families just for crazy ladies like Angelina and that Mormon mom in the RV?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Image: Celebrityhack.com&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://babble.com/CS/aggbug.aspx?PostID=84574" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/parenting/default.aspx">parenting</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/family+size/default.aspx">family size</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/Pamela+Paul/default.aspx">Pamela Paul</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/big+families/default.aspx">big families</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/third+child/default.aspx">third child</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/three+kids/default.aspx">three kids</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/middle+class+families/default.aspx">middle class families</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/Inc_2E00_/default.aspx">Inc.</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/poor/default.aspx">poor</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/rich/default.aspx">rich</category></item></channel></rss>