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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://babble.com/CS/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Strollerderby : making ends meet</title><link>http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/making+ends+meet/default.aspx</link><description>Tags: making ends meet</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2007.1 (Build: 20910.1126)</generator><item><title>How Much Would It Cost You to Take a Career Break?</title><link>http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2009/05/29/How-Much-Would-It-Cost-You-to-Take-a-Career-Break.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 15:00:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">42a08a39-daf3-4129-8a63-8a27b879cc03:207135</guid><dc:creator>Miriam Axel-Lute</dc:creator><slash:comments>4</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=207135</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2009/05/29/How-Much-Would-It-Cost-You-to-Take-a-Career-Break.aspx#comments</comments><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/2009/05/money.jpg"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/2009/05/money.jpg" alt="" align="right" border="0" height="161" hspace="4" width="240" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;i&gt;The New York Times&lt;/i&gt; (h/t &lt;a href="http://www.creativeclass.com/creative_class/2009/05/28/worklife/" target="_blank"&gt;Creative Class&lt;/a&gt; blog) has an &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/27/business/economy/27leonhardt.html?hp" target="_blank"&gt;interesting report&lt;/a&gt; on the financial penalties sustained in different fields by people who take some time out of the workforce. Apparently, although medicine has the most grueling training, once you get there, it&amp;#39;s a lot easier on work/life balance than, say, finance, business consulting, or law. Or even academia.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Of course by &amp;quot;people who take time off for family&amp;quot; we still mean mostly (but not entirely) women (it used to be called the Mommy track, remember?), and I&amp;#39;m surprised that the research didn&amp;#39;t explore whether women and men experienced different financial penalties when they do take time. (And I&amp;#39;m surprised that the Creative Class blog post didn&amp;#39;t even acknowledge that gender is still a huge factor in this.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;It&amp;#39;s also, perhaps, a little hard for me to get too worked up about the relatively lower salaries of highly paid MBAs and PhDs who&amp;#39;ve taken a few years off when there are so many other people for whom work-life balance means being able to get paid time off or support their family without taking on a second job. Ok, so perhaps that&amp;#39;s a little too harsh. Work-family balance is important for everyone, for the kids, and because people who&amp;#39;ve been forced to work 70-hour weeks when their kids are young often have a I-did-it-so-you-should-too attitude toward their own subordinates, not to mention about efforts to improve work-life balance for everyone. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;More by this author:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2009/05/10/6-Reasons-to-Hate-Mothers-Day.aspx" title="6 Reasons to Hate Mother&amp;#39;s Day"&gt;6 Reasons to Hate Mother&amp;#39;s Day&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2009/05/28/is-it-ok-to-hate-your-kids-sport.aspx" target="_blank"&gt;Just Waiting for Soccer to End&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2009/05/08/Not-Every-Kid-With-a-Mother-Has-a-Mommy.aspx" target="_blank"&gt;Not Every Kid with a Mother Has a &amp;quot;Mommy&amp;quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;img src="http://babble.com/CS/aggbug.aspx?PostID=207135" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/gender/default.aspx">gender</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/work-life+balance/default.aspx">work-life balance</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/money/default.aspx">money</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/SAHMs/default.aspx">SAHMs</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/finances/default.aspx">finances</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/sahds/default.aspx">sahds</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/salaries/default.aspx">salaries</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/making+ends+meet/default.aspx">making ends meet</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/Axel-Lute/default.aspx">Axel-Lute</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/time+off/default.aspx">time off</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/staying+home/default.aspx">staying home</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/advanced+degrees/default.aspx">advanced degrees</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/work-family+balance/default.aspx">work-family balance</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/going+back+to+work/default.aspx">going back to work</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/part-time+work/default.aspx">part-time work</category><category domain="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/tags/mommy+track/default.aspx">mommy track</category></item><item><title>Day Care Enrollments Plummet as Families Struggle to Pay the Bills</title><link>http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2008/11/08/day-care-enrollments-plummet-as-families-struggle-to-pay-the-bills.aspx</link><pubDate>Sat, 08 Nov 2008 23:13:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">42a08a39-daf3-4129-8a63-8a27b879cc03:144629</guid><dc:creator>Hannah Tennant-Moore</dc:creator><slash:comments>8</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/rsscomments.aspx?PostID=144629</wfw:commentRss><comments>http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2008/11/08/day-care-enrollments-plummet-as-families-struggle-to-pay-the-bills.aspx#comments</comments><description>&lt;p&gt;








&lt;a href="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/2008/10/daycare.jpg"&gt;&lt;img src="http://babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/2008/10/daycare.jpg" alt="" width="226" align="right" border="0" height="165" hspace="4" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;New Horizons daycare center just outside of Chicago has seen its enrollment cut by 50
percent in the last three months. And a San
  Gabriel, California
daycare saw its enrollment go from 51 kids last year to 15 this year.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As the economy goes from scary to terrifying, parents around the
country are being forced to &lt;a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20081108/ap_on_bi_ge/meltdown_child_care" target="_blank"&gt;cut back on childcare&lt;/a&gt; or pull their kids out of
daycare altogether, relying instead on extended family or drastic changes to
their own work lives.







&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&amp;quot;It is not about people making choices to drive a
second car,&amp;quot; said Diane Stout, who is the executive director of New
Horizons. &amp;quot;For many low income people it is making a choice for food.&amp;quot; And, with yearly day care costs averaging between $3,380 and
$10,787 for childcare for one preschooler, even middle income families are
being faced with the need to cut back on childcare.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Providers say they
are seeing increased disciplinary problems amongst kids who are stressed by
their families’ financial problems and by the loss of many of their friends in
daycare.&lt;/p&gt;



&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;And many fear that kids will be placed in dangerous
situations as their parents’ desperation increases. Even families who qualify for
aid often don’t bother applying since the waiting list is so long, being forced
instead to put their children in questionable situations while they work to pay
the rent and put food on the table. One woman, was instance, was leaving her
four-year-old daughter in her car while she worked at a shoe store, checking on
her every hour.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;As the executive director of Child Care Solutions, a New York referral agency
put it, &amp;quot;We are driving people into an unregulated system.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Photo: AP &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Related Post:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.babble.com/CS/blogs/strollerderby/archive/2008/10/29/is-cutting-the-sitter-s-pay-the-best-way-to-save-money.aspx" target="_blank"&gt;Is Cutting Your Sitter&amp;#39;s Pay the Best Way to Save Money? &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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