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  • Panic at the Soccer Field

    How can you help your kid over a full-blow case of panic, the sort of state where he loses his mind over something that he has the power to fix? If you are one of the lucky few who has offspring who don't come completely unglued every now and again, please skip ahead to the next post. And know that I think you're lying.

     

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  • Weekly Check-Up: Girls Get Hurt More Than Boys

    soccerI hope you caught the New York Times magazine article on Sunday about girls and sports injuries, because if I could just soapbox for a sec, I think we all ought to be concerned about this. There's lots to digest in there, but one of the things that stands out: Some experts believe that in sports that both sexes play, girls rupture their A.C.L.s (i.e. blow out their knees) at rates as high as five times that of boys. Girls are also more likely to suffer concussions in sports like basketball. And as more girls play sports, we'd better figure out what to do about it.

    Some possible reasons include...

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  • Therapist Keeps the Attention of ADHD Fathers

    Move over Ritalin. There’s a new ADHD treatment in town.

    A therapist has come up with a simple way to help treat kids with behavioral, emotional and learning problems.

     

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  • Manchester United Recruits 9 Year Old

    Rhain-davisRemember when Freddy Adu started playing for DC United when he was only 14 years old? No? Fine. Nobody in the US actually follows major league soccer, or you didn't before  The Beckhams moved to L.A. It's okay. I don't blame you. I'd watch golf on tv if there was a slight chance that David Beckham would appear shirtless.

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  • Adults Like to Play With Each Other, and Not THAT Way So Get Your Mind Out of that Gutter!

    dodgeballWhere I live, the only people playing on sports fields are usually under 5 feet tall. Their parents sit on bleachers or mill around at the edge of the field, talking to one another and sporadically yelling things at their kids. Wow. What a great time (yawn). Which is why I was so amazed in my recent vacation in Vancouver to see adults actually playing at a city neighborhood park. With one another! There was a large soccer game going on, mainly 20- and 30-somethings, but also some amazingly buff-looking 50- and 60-somethings, all playing together and seemingly having a wonderful time. There was also quite a lively game of cricket going on just down the field, and the whole park would resound with a roar whenever some apparently good play was made (the whole thing was a bit mystifying to me).

    But still...adults, playing. Together. And looking like they did it regularly, not just on annual beer-soaked occasions.

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  • Organized Sports for Preschoolers: Too Soon or Just Right?

    soccer babyThere's a big debate a-brewing out on the soccer field these days as tiny three-and four-year olds are taking up scaled-down cleats and shin guards and milling about in confusion while their parents look anxiously on, calling out encouragement or instructions ("kick the ballll!"). The "traditional" age for an introduction to organized sports has always been at about age eight, when coordination and drive kick in for most kids, and many kids have been pushing that envelope with t-ball and other sports at about five or so, but parents seem to be pushing their kids into sports earlier and earlier now (even as young as 18 months!), which leaves child development experts shaking their heads.

    Early-sports proponents say that being out on the field is far better than being on the couch in front of video games, and that preschool is a prime time for learning motor skills like throwing, catching, jumping and running. Okay, true enough. But development experts opposing this trend claim that it's too early to competantly learn game rules and that there's simply too much pressure on a kid that age to perform. Pressure that seems to come from the [cough] parents.

    Parents these days seem especially keen on getting their kids into school teams as early as possible, pushing the poor kid into a practice regimen that's a sure-fire path to early burnout. Personally, I think that three and four is way too young for any kind of organized sports. Kids that age should be playing in an open-ended way. But that's me. What about you? 


  • Dads Are Soccer Moms Too.

    Andrew Oh-Willeke waxes poetic on the start of soccer Saturdays and opening of the season of the chauffeur. The kids play soccer the parents watch and gossip with equal vigor. The kids have fun and barely notice they're being pummelled by the more competitive west side neighborhood teams because they're having fun. The older kids are more involved in the play, but not the overall statistics of the season or even the outcome of the game.

    His description of the soccer field reminds me of the year my son "played" soccer, though I use the term loosely. He pretty much ran up and down the field near the ball (but never kicking it) looking for any opportunity to give someone a high five. Even if they were on the opposing team. I really loved watching him and was always taken aback by the parents who really seemed concerned about the score. I know that's sort of the point but, enh, I like seeing kids have fun.

    Andrew describes how the day fills with driving to get birthday gifts and juggle kids varying schedules and errands for the family. Instead of feeling overwhelmed by all the running around he views it as a chance to get out and about town. The guy reminds me of my optimistic husband who could find the bright side of Darfur. I don't like errands or frantic schedules, can you tell?



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