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  • 5 Things Most Parents Hate to Hear First Thing in the Morning

    Mornings with children are always an adventure, especially once they begin to talk and you are required to operate complex machinery like microwaves and toasters before ingesting caffeine.  Here are a few choice statements that can catapult even the groggiest among us into code-red parenting alert:

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  • When To Call The Doctor

    When is a cough the sign of a medical emergency and when should it be treated with a tablespoon of Robitussin? When is it not a big deal that your child is in so much pain that “she acts like she’s possessed”? And should you ever give your toddler Gatorade?

    Thanks to Cookie for answering all of these questions in a concise article that details what to keep in your medicine cabinet and how to respond to any two a.m. attack of fever, nausea, earache, cough, or diarrhea.

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  • Mom Likes Sick Kids and Lice

    An AlphaMummy at the Times lists all the stuff she thought she would hate about parenting but turns out to have enjoyed. I'm so not relating.

    I mean, she lists "taking care of sick kids" at No. 1. I would say that's one of the things I wasn't looking forward too, and for good reason: it's far worse than I ever imagined (Mommy's a little sleep-sensitive.)

    What else has unexpectedly brought her joy:

     

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  • Mom Gets Ticket While Sick Kid Barfs In Car

    c'mon officer!I feel for moms and dads when I find things like this in newspapers, because what parent hasn't had a day like this? Gina Boyd's three-year-old daughter was running a fever and had an earache, so they climbed into the family van and headed for a clinic. As they were driving, the girl started making choking noises and throwing up, so Gina made an illegal U-turn to pull over and care for her kid. Aaaand that's when she heard sirens behind her. 

    Now, you might assume the officer would show some mercy considering the circumstances...

     

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  • Oh, Those Whining Sick Kids!

    sick kidSorry, can't get the sick-kid thing out of my mind lately. Maybe it's from the nose-wipage snail-tracks decorating my couch? Or the hacking phlegm-sounds invading my dreams at night, followed by the [intentionally weak-sounding] call of "Mamaaaaa!" Or the doe eyes that stare up at me, pleadingly, beseechingly, as if somehow that intense eye contact would be enough not only to convey what feeling like crap feels like but also to magically transfer it to someone—anyone—else.

    I know you know what I'm talking about.

     

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  • Judgment Day: Sending Sick Kids to School

    sick kidMy younger son has been sick all week. Croup. The middle-of-the-night sound of him hoarsely fighting for breath wakes one instantly to a state of full alert. We've been down this road seven times now (Down syndrome awarded him tiny respiratory passages that are overly susceptible to infection), so it, like everything else, was weathered with only a modicum of whining.

    On my part, the whining. But my point: he brought this home from school (no one else in the house is sick), and therein lies my quandary. When do you keep a sick kid home and when do you send him off to school?

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  • Fevers Offer Break From Autism

    feverThis is one fascinating study: Researchers have found that fevers temporarily restore some nerve cell communication in the brains of autistic kids. The study of 30 kids with fevers of over 100.4 degrees Fahrenheit observed improvements in communication and social interactions. In fact, "More than 80 percent of those with fever showed some improvements in behavior during [the fever] and 30 percent had dramatic improvements, the researchers said. The change involved things like longer concentration spans, more talking, improved eye contact and better overall relations with adults and other children."

    This phenomenon has been observed anecdotally...

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  • Big Babies and Even Bigger Babies

    After giving birth to my second daughter, a whopper at nearly 11 pounds, I’m always interested in the details of big babies, especially the extra super-sized newborns that make mine look like a peanut.

    Like this one – a 14-and-a-half pounder born six months ago to a fairly wee mama (5 feet tall and slim). She looked full term at five months pregnant, and by the time she was 37 weeks along (that's her in the picture), her doctors in the U.K. insisted she head down to surgery for a c-section.

    The surgical staff gasped when they pulled little, er, big Jack out and held him and his linebacker shoulders and roly-poly legs, arms and bloated torso up to show his parents.

    Jack was suffering ...

     

     

     

     

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  • Weekly Check-Up: Don't Get Sick, Kids, Cuz You Aren't Covered For That

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    Let's see: Democrats want to expand the State Children's Insurance Program with increased federal funding. Republicans don't want to. In fact, they are looking for some cuts. In particular, the White House opposes possible expansion of the program through an increase in the federal tobacco tax and cuts in Medicare payments to insurance companies. On the one hand, we have sick and injured children who receive medical care; on the other, we have those poor tobacco and insurance companies. Awww, it's a Sophie's Choice situation here.

    The White House opposes the Democratic plan for “philosophical and ideological” reasons, because it would steer us towards “a single-payer health care system with rationing and price controls.” Perhaps they'd like to deliver their ideological reasons to chronically ill children whose families can't afford treatment? But just to be safe, tell every kid you see to wash their hands, eat healthy, and try not to develop asthma from the polluted air or cancer from pesticide exposure. Because you know, there's some insurance executives who might end up having to get the basic Mercedes with the V-8 rather than the V-12 engine if this all goes through, and that would be a tragedy.


  • Daycare Makes Your Kid Sick

    germsThis shouldn't surprise anyone whose kid spends time in the care of others, especially at daycare centers, but a new study reveals the obvious: being in daycare makes your kid sick.

    56 North Carolina daycare centers were studied.  Half of them received $10,000 of equipment upgrades that included automatic faucets and foot-activated, rollout bins for diaper disposal as well as impermeable-surface tables for food preparation and diaper-changing. Not surprisingly, the centers that received the hygienic upgrades had a lower incidence of illness both in the children and their adult caregivers.

    Obviously, not every daycare center can afford $10,000 in equipment upgrades, and daycare itself, while perhaps not the ideal situation for children certainly is a viable alternative, and isn't going away any time soon since so many parents need two incomes simply for survival purposes, so what to do? The company that makes the hygienic equipment says it's being used not only in North Carolina but also in Oklahoma, Illinois, and other states. And where one company makes an item, more surely follow suit, so if it were me needing to use daycare, I'd think about adding the presence or not of equipment like this to the already long list of must-haves when considering daycare alternatives.


  • Kids Feign Health To Protect Working Moms

    sick childHey, is it too early in the day to have your heart broken? Usually I prefer to wait until after lunch, but it's a Tuesday, so what the heck. Next time you see a kid in school with a fever and a cough, it might not have been the doing of a desperate mom. Apparently lots of kids ask themselves, "Am I sick enough to tell mom and risk that she'll lose her job?" Groups advocating for paid sick days for low-income workers had lots of horrific stories about children who felt the need to hide illnesses in order to protect the family. One advocate described this: "her son Eric, then age 7, got hit by a car on the way home from school but chose not to tell her for fear she'd lose her second-shift job if she didn't go in to work. Later an older sibling called her to say that Eric was crying because his arm hurt from being hit by the car and she had to take him to the hospital. When Robbie informed her boss, he was adamant: "Leave and you're fired." Her pleas didn't move him. She did leave; she was fired. Eric turned out to have a broken arm."

    Kind of makes a compelling case for paid sick days, doesn't it? Of course, it also really highlights the terrible situation of families living in poverty. Another activist reported, "My son had stopped eating...He thought it would save on groceries." Ugh. Kind of makes you want to run out and shake the nearest congressperson.


  • Movie Theatre For Sick Kids Opens

    Shrek appears to be moving away from the 'healthy role model' controversy and is instead appearing as the first feature film shown at a theatre created for children hospitalized at Hospital for Sick Children in Toronto. The theatre was spearheaded by filmmaker Barry Avrich, and cost $1 million (USD$910,000) to create, all the donations (money and equipment) were raised in one month. The theatre was created in an aging auditorium of the hospital.

    Avrich believes this is the first charity of it's kind, providing sick children with the thrill of a night at the movies. He says, "This is a world of walls that we live in, and that especially goes for those in hospital. During a film, the walls come down; that's the definition of theater, when a kid can walk in, or be wheeled in, and completely forget about life and be a kid again." 

    Children too ill to be brought to the movie can watch from their rooms via closed circuit television and Avrich is working with studios to bring 3-4 first run movies to the hospital theatre each year. I love this story because it shows how your private passion (film in this case) can translate into something of value to other struggling souls. I am often paralyzed by the enormity of the problems of the world, I can't cure AIDS, but sometimes giving kids the escape of a night at the movies is enough to make a difference while scientists and doctors learn how to cure various diseases.


  • Johnny Depp Talks About Daughter's Hospital Stay

    johnny deppMr. Best Pirate Ever spoke to the press about his daughter's recent serious illness. Seven-year-old Lily Rose contracted E. coli, and was admitted to a London hospital when her kidneys shut down. Mom Vanessa Paradis and Depp kept a vigil by her bed, stopping filming on Depp's latest film, Sweeney Todd. Of course the whole thing must have been extremely scary for the whole family.

    Depp says about his daughter, "It was a very bumpy patch but she has come through it beautifully and unscathed and she is now as healthy as she always was. She is wonderful. It was a reminder to us of how to breathe, walk, talk, think and surround ourselves with people we love." Isn't it interesting how when Depp demonstrates he's a devoted and thoughtful dad, the impossible happens: he gets even hotter? Yowsa.

    Depp and Paradis, who are already characterized by one source as having "one of the strongest relationships in Hollywood" (though they don't exactly have stiff competition) are now planning to get married this summer. The scare over their child's health is reported to have brought them even closer together. Awwww.

    So the only sad ending for this story is that with Depp and Paradis blissfully domestic, my chances of smooching on him go from maybe zero to negative ten. C'est la vie.  

     

     


  • Ear Infections. Treatments and Approaches that Work

    Ear infections are as common among young kids as new mommies and daddies with insufficient time to shower.  Three out of four children under three suffer from middle-ear infections in the U.S. and who has that kind of sick time?

    With concerns about antibiotics these days, doctors are increasingly hesitant to prescribe medicine until a sufficient waiting period (or until the parent advocating for their child ups the ante enough).  But let's be honest, most parents don't have the heart to see their wee ones suffer ear tubes. 

    Whether bacterial or viral, ear infections can be the bane of many families with young kids and knowing when to call and insist on medications is a tough one.  When any of my kids have a temperature for a couple of days, are pulling on their ears and are having difficulty sleeping, I'm nearly always positive (and correct) that an ear infection is the cause.  

     

     

     


  • Mom, Dad, You Make Me Sick - Literally

    We all know that stress can be very harmful to our health. You know that it can make you sick, but did you know that your stress can make your kids sick? It's true. They did a study on it. These doctors aren't saying that if you are in a bad mood your kid will get whooping cough, but they are saying that a tense atmosphere can cause problems in a developing immune system.

    So chill the hell out. If you are one of those "supermoms" or "superdads" and you are so busy trying to make everything perfect that you are giving yourself ulcers and getting sleep deprived you aren't actually doing anyone any favors.

    This article suggests scheduling your time so that you can actually have appointments for free time. I suggest stop scheduling all of your free time so you have free time. Either way, be aware that your kids know if you are anxious or depressed and if it is because you are trying too hard to make life perfect for them, they are probably picking up on that too. And they probably feel bad about it. Just have fun. That is what it is really about anyway. Isn't it?

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  • Study: Bacteria-Killing Viruses Fight Ear Infections in Mice, Hopefully Children, Too

    earResearchers at St. Jude's Hospital have discovered that enzyme viruses used to punch holes in bacteria also work to prevent ear infections in mice. Their experiment is, hopefully, a first step in helping to treat middle ear infections in children, along with other complications that arise from the flu and other viral infections.

    Years of testing must still be done before the treatment will be green-lit for use on children, but, so far, treatments are "100% effective" on mice.

    One of the applications researchers envision is a nasal spray that people can use once a week during winter time to clear out the bacteria. The spray could also be used after influenza to prevent secondary infections since it's not the flu that kills people but the bacteria infection that may follow.

    According to the study, 80% of kids in the U.S. get an ear infection at least once in their lives. These findings are welcome news for parents who want to treat the infections without the use of (largely ineffective) antibiotics.
     


  • WA State Considers Paid Family Leave

    Washington State may be the first state to pass a paid family leave law, if a proposed bill passes the state house and secures the Governor's signature (highly likely given Governor Christine Gregoire's stance on related issues).

    Senate Bill 5659, the Family Leave Insurance Bill, passed the Washington State Senate earlier this week.  If it becomes law, businesses would be required to give eligible employees up to 5 weeks of paid family leave to care for a new baby, adoptive child, ill family member, spouse, or for personal sick leave.

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  • "Christian" Pediatrician Denies Care To Sick Child With Tattooed Mom

    Doctor Gary Merrill says he was just "following his beliefs" when he refused to treat Tasha Childress'  toddler-aged daughter for an ear infection, because her mother had visible tattoos and piercings.  And despite the negative press he's getting for it, Dr. Merrill says he'd do it again, to ensure the patients he does deem holy enough to treat, have a more "comfortable" and "Christian" atmosphere.

    According to the American Medical Association,  Dr. Merrill's practice of turning sick people in need away based on their - or their parent's -  physical appearance is no big deal.  But it was a huge deal to Tasha Childress and her sick babe.  “I felt totally discriminated against, like I wasn’t good enough to talk to,” she said, and rightly so.  "Really, it didn’t matter what he didn’t want to see us for. It isn’t right."

    Childress says she wants the policy to be changed immediately, and an apology from the doctor for making her feel like an outsider.  Merrill says he will continue to enforce the rules he has in place, which even include no chewing gum in his office.  I say... who knew that God hated gum?



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