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  • Rocking the Mocking: Stop Temper Tantrums Now

    What's more mortifying: toddler temper tantrums or the many experts out there proclaiming that they have the power to stop them? Asserting that it is not in the nature of toddlers to lose their damn minds on a regular basis; no, no, it's your own crappy parenting that's at fault and if you buy their book you'll have the best-behaved kid in playgroup.Now, admittedly, while it's not a great idea to cave in like a Pinto or exhibit the screeching, slapping, arm-wrenching behavior pattern my brother refers to simply as  "going all Wal-Mart on your kid" it seems like any toddler who doesn't completely lose it on occasion is either heavily overmedicated or just. not . right.

    So of course, when a badly-written press release touting this site arrived in my inbox I was intrigued.

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  • Being a Perfect Parent is Way, Way Too Easy

    It's very difficult to find parenting resources that aren't full of cliches or hand-me-down instructions for raising children that could have been written by a parenting robot. So when a really great article comes along and illuminates some heretofore unforeseen parenting knowledge, I take notice. Finally, I think, something original.

    So enter this article, which instructs parents on how to make the "most of playtime" and encourages them to let kids "explore." I've got to tell you, when I saw this, I knew my long search had ended. I had finally found the Holy Grail of parenting -- the Golconda of wisdom that will help the ages raise better tikes.

    I hope you'll join me on this magical world of parenting tips that will help you raise perfect kids.

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  • Is Day Care Really Bad For Kids?

    This is one of those stories that spreads like wildfire: the latest in-depth study reveals that kids in daycare are more likely to be problem kids when they reach elementary school. I have a tendency to raise a Spock-like eyebrow at such studies; even a layman like me can look at the data and wonder if the report accounts for variables, or if the media is merely focusing on a juicy part of the story to catch the reader's eye. I know - crazy talk.

    Turns out I'm not the only one scratching his head at the validity of both the study and the media's take on it. I was all set to fire off a heated screed over what I think is a lazy effort by both the group conducting the study and the reporters who misrepresented the information, but Slate's Emily Bazelon beat me to it. Bazelon offers up an in-depth look at the real meaning behind the study, and asks some pointed questions of the study's author, Margaret Burchinal. I don't like spoilers (if someone had told me that Nikki and Paulo weren't really dead on last night's Lost, I'd have been pissed), but Burchinal drops a bomb of a quote. She says:

      "I'm not sure we communicated this, but the kids who had one to two years of daycare by age 4½—which was typical for our sample—had exactly the level of problem behavior you'd expect for kids of their age. Most people use center care for one or two years, and for those kids we're not seeing anything problematic." 

    The rest of the article is eye-opening, and well worth your time.  Like a lot of you out there, my kid's in daycare. We got lucky - his teachers are great, the center's affordable, and Lucas really seems to enjoy it. Still, we deal with enough bullshit from people who look down on us for putting our kid in a child care center. Although I hope more folks take a skeptical look at the spin being put on that study, those attitudes that will no doubt be reinforced by this example of bad journalism aren't likely to change any time soon.

     


  • British Parenting Expert Sues Online Parenting Community Because Dissenting Commenters are Mean

    Gina Ford may not be a household name in the U.S., but she is a well-known baby expert in Britain where her "schedule-baby-down-to-the-minute" approach is both worshiped and reviled. For all intents and purposes, she is the "Ezzo" (Babywise) of Britain and her book, The Contented Baby, has sold millions of copies worldwide.

    Ford doesn't like the way that certain mums who frequent Mumsnet, one of the U.K.'s largest parenting websites, are talking about her.  Amongst other not-so-kind things, they are calling her "cruel" because she advocates the cry-it-out method. Ford doesn't appreciate the name-calling so she is threatening to sue the site.

    Mumsnet was started in 2000 by two mothers. These days, the site gets about a million hits a year and boasts 75,000 members.  The owners say they can't afford to pay any settlement and therefore shouldn't be sued. They are so worried about losing their houses and their livelihood that they have banned all Ford talk from the site.

    Should Ford pursue legal action or put a pacifier in it and stop being such a baby?



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