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  • Mom Of 17 Celebrates Mother's Day With Big Announcement

    Imagine celebrating Mother's Day as the mother of 18 kids.

    That's A LOT of macrame pot holders!

    But Michelle Duggar, 41, must be jonesing for more.  Because the Arkansas woman recently announced that she's pregnant with her nineteenth child.

     

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  • Homeschooling Would Drive Me Insane

    homeschoolWhen my son Nathaniel, now 11, was about 2, it became crystal clear that he would be lost in a public school setting. I felt that his gifts of sensitivity and intuition would be, shall we say, underappreciated, in public school.

    The obvious alternative, then, was homeschooling. In homeschooling, I could protect my child from the horrid beasts of public school. I could expand on his obvious (to me) high intelligence and sensitivity, traits I valued. In homeschooling, I could give my son everything I thought he needed in an education (elitist attitude? why yes!)

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  • More German Homeschooled Children Threatened with Removal from their Families

    Remember the case of the 15-year old German girl taken from her parents because they homeschooled her? Human rights activist concerns that this could open the door to other homeschooled children being removed from their families, is proving true.

    A court in Saxony (the same court that removed the 15-year old) has ordered 5 children into state custody.  Though the children have not yet been taken from their parents, they could be removed any day.  The ruling realizes the fear of many concerned groups who believe that in its efforts to insure public education remains free of ideology and extremism, the government has missed the mark and vastly overstepped its rights.

    The notion that a government, or any person, can remove children from parents if the parents aren't following stated guidelines and rules is so frightening.  I'm usually an avid defender of government programs and public education.  But these occurrences leave me absolutely speechless.


  • Sex and Santa: When Should a Parent Tell the Truth?

    A homeschooling and philosophizing parent writing on Nashoba.com, ponders the right timing for uncovering the truth about Santa and sex, especially when it comes to her youngest children.  She points out that while many homeschooling parents choose to educate their children outside of the public school system in order to protect their innocence, by schooling all different ages together, the younger children are sometimes exposed to more advanced information (insemination anyone?).

    Homeschooling parents aren't the only ones concerned about the sex-kittenish behavior of the under 10 set and most of us can appreciate the effort it takes to stand between your child and the over-sexed world around them, but I don't think sex and Santa are equal affronts to innocence, especially when it comes to the under 6s. 

    The questions burning the brains of the youngsters in my family have more to do with "Where's the magical fairy person?" and "Mommy, can I have wine too?" and "Does Santa know I hit Violet?"  So far, my house is free of sexual curiosity, but perhaps a little bit of homeschooling would solve that problem.


  • Unschooling: A Stupid Idea, Or Merely A Dumb One?

    There are two rules of thumb that smart parentbloggers adhere to. One – don’t write a post asking the general public if you should circumcise your son. Two – when you have a splitting headache, don’t write about homeschooling. As I’m not one for rules, and not particularly smart (example: I took my wife and two-year-old son on a cross-country road trip for the holidays, thinking that spending seven days in the car while dodging blizzards and the occasional sandstorm would be “fun”; it might have been, were I Ernest Shackleton), I bring you this curious piece on unschooling.

     

    “Unschooling” is a form of homeschooling, in which the kids get to direct their own “education”. According to the article, there’s very little in the way of structure – children learn about what’s interesting to them, or they watch TV or play Xbox, whatever they prefer. Advocates say that unschooling is an antidote to the often static curricula and rigid devotion to rules found in most public schools. Skeptics argue that young kids lack the proper mindset and maturity to recognize that subjects that are important (basic math, science, and history) are not always “fun”. Indeed, with American students falling behind the rest of the world in knowledge of the hard sciences, the idea of unschooling seems even more ridiculous than having undereducated parents attempting to homeschool their kids on complex subjects. Then again, I would argue that if the student in question were in his or her late teens/early twenties, one could take the unschooling concept, toss in an endless supply of cheap beer and/or bad weed, and rename the thing “college”. 

     

    There’s certainly a case to be made that the traditional method of schooling is not and should not be for all students, and that as a society we need to rethink our notions of “success” and “education”; as my dad was fond of saying every time I brought home a “C” in math, the world needs ditchdiggers too. It seems to me, though, that unschooling is an inherently bad idea. Unless there’s money to be made playing Doom 3.



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