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  • The Lonely Internet Life of Children

    The Internet may prevent institutionalization for many mamas and papas, but for kids it can be an activity that encourages more isolation than connection.  According to one study, the Internet makes it more difficult for kids to relate IRL (in real life) if they spend too much time with the chatting/emailing/My Space-ing.

    Even very young children who can learn important socialization skills during their young years, are damaged by too much time playing video games.  I'm not sure this warrants a full Waldorf reaction, but it certainly makes me less inclined to let my young girls play Mickey Mouse computer games.

    Whether it's really the Internet or other key factors (less time with parents, more television, more exposure to violence).  In reaction the studies findings, schools are encouraging kids to build friendships by having friendship days.  Friendship days? We're not doing our job people.  And we shouldn't expect schools to pick up the slack.


  • Is Day Care Really Bad For Kids?

    This is one of those stories that spreads like wildfire: the latest in-depth study reveals that kids in daycare are more likely to be problem kids when they reach elementary school. I have a tendency to raise a Spock-like eyebrow at such studies; even a layman like me can look at the data and wonder if the report accounts for variables, or if the media is merely focusing on a juicy part of the story to catch the reader's eye. I know - crazy talk.

    Turns out I'm not the only one scratching his head at the validity of both the study and the media's take on it. I was all set to fire off a heated screed over what I think is a lazy effort by both the group conducting the study and the reporters who misrepresented the information, but Slate's Emily Bazelon beat me to it. Bazelon offers up an in-depth look at the real meaning behind the study, and asks some pointed questions of the study's author, Margaret Burchinal. I don't like spoilers (if someone had told me that Nikki and Paulo weren't really dead on last night's Lost, I'd have been pissed), but Burchinal drops a bomb of a quote. She says:

      "I'm not sure we communicated this, but the kids who had one to two years of daycare by age 4½—which was typical for our sample—had exactly the level of problem behavior you'd expect for kids of their age. Most people use center care for one or two years, and for those kids we're not seeing anything problematic." 

    The rest of the article is eye-opening, and well worth your time.  Like a lot of you out there, my kid's in daycare. We got lucky - his teachers are great, the center's affordable, and Lucas really seems to enjoy it. Still, we deal with enough bullshit from people who look down on us for putting our kid in a child care center. Although I hope more folks take a skeptical look at the spin being put on that study, those attitudes that will no doubt be reinforced by this example of bad journalism aren't likely to change any time soon.

     


  • More German Homeschooled Children Threatened with Removal from their Families

    Remember the case of the 15-year old German girl taken from her parents because they homeschooled her? Human rights activist concerns that this could open the door to other homeschooled children being removed from their families, is proving true.

    A court in Saxony (the same court that removed the 15-year old) has ordered 5 children into state custody.  Though the children have not yet been taken from their parents, they could be removed any day.  The ruling realizes the fear of many concerned groups who believe that in its efforts to insure public education remains free of ideology and extremism, the government has missed the mark and vastly overstepped its rights.

    The notion that a government, or any person, can remove children from parents if the parents aren't following stated guidelines and rules is so frightening.  I'm usually an avid defender of government programs and public education.  But these occurrences leave me absolutely speechless.


  • Proliferation of Female Teacher Sex Scandals in NYC

    Courtesy of my good friends over at Gothamist, I've learned that there's apparently a number of high-profile cases involving improper student-teacher relations across the city.  The unusual and unifying aspect of all these cases is that they all involved a female teacher and a male student. 

    Yesterday, a 30-year-old public school teacher was arrested on charges that she raped a 13-year-old boy who may have been one of her students.  The day before, 23-year-old Bronx public school music teacher Emily Streb, was arraigned on rape charges for allegedly having had sex with a 16-year-old special-ed student.  This is accompanied by all the coverage being generated by a current trial involving a former Montessori principal accused of starting a sexual relationship with a 13-year-old student 11 years ago.

    It's all so Notes On A Scandal (except none of the teachers look like Cate Blanchett.)  Another weird case of life imitating art?  I don't know.  What I DO know is that I hope there isn't any double standard when it comes to cases involving female teachers and male students.  Though the gender relationships have historically been reversed, sex with a 13-year-old is rape.  Period!
  • Unschooling: A Stupid Idea, Or Merely A Dumb One?

    There are two rules of thumb that smart parentbloggers adhere to. One – don’t write a post asking the general public if you should circumcise your son. Two – when you have a splitting headache, don’t write about homeschooling. As I’m not one for rules, and not particularly smart (example: I took my wife and two-year-old son on a cross-country road trip for the holidays, thinking that spending seven days in the car while dodging blizzards and the occasional sandstorm would be “fun”; it might have been, were I Ernest Shackleton), I bring you this curious piece on unschooling.

     

    “Unschooling” is a form of homeschooling, in which the kids get to direct their own “education”. According to the article, there’s very little in the way of structure – children learn about what’s interesting to them, or they watch TV or play Xbox, whatever they prefer. Advocates say that unschooling is an antidote to the often static curricula and rigid devotion to rules found in most public schools. Skeptics argue that young kids lack the proper mindset and maturity to recognize that subjects that are important (basic math, science, and history) are not always “fun”. Indeed, with American students falling behind the rest of the world in knowledge of the hard sciences, the idea of unschooling seems even more ridiculous than having undereducated parents attempting to homeschool their kids on complex subjects. Then again, I would argue that if the student in question were in his or her late teens/early twenties, one could take the unschooling concept, toss in an endless supply of cheap beer and/or bad weed, and rename the thing “college”. 

     

    There’s certainly a case to be made that the traditional method of schooling is not and should not be for all students, and that as a society we need to rethink our notions of “success” and “education”; as my dad was fond of saying every time I brought home a “C” in math, the world needs ditchdiggers too. It seems to me, though, that unschooling is an inherently bad idea. Unless there’s money to be made playing Doom 3.


  • Christmas Around the Web

    School's out, your shopping is done, it's crappy outside and you and the kids are about to bring new meaning to the concept of "boxing day". How to kill the next few days and come through with your holiday spirit intact? Check out Tech Digest's list of the Top Fifty Christmas Websites.

    The list runs a wide gamut from descriptions of holiday customs around the world from Santas.net to children's crafts at Enchanted Learning. Older kids will get a kick out of How Christmas Works, while preschoolers will go nuts for L'il Fingers Merry Christmas. There is a huge store of educational material here: historical narrative, a discussion of the origins of the Christmas tree, and the official site of the White House Christmas tree.

    Songs, jokes, activities, trivia, stories, a killer collection of vegetarian holiday recipes: you can stay busy for days with this list that includes something for everyone. Even crazy cat people.
     


     



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