Here you've been squirreling away your nickels for your kid's eventual college tuition, and it turns out that early childhood development experts are suggesting that instead we focus on the first three years of life, saying that money spent then is money well spent indeed. The reason? An estimated 85% of brain development occurs during the first three years of a child's life, which are key to shaping the person that child eventually becomes. By pouring time, love, and energy into a child's first three years, we can greatly benefit and enhance that development, allowing our children the opportunity to truly live up to their potential.
Many countries around the world are no stranger to this concept, knowing that a child's behavior, emotions, social and intellectual
skills can all be traced back to the formative years first three years. In Sweden for instance, the government provides support for families with young children so that a parent can stay home. While I don't expect that to happen in the U.S., at least not anytime soon, it's something to aspire to.
The biggest hurdle, however, is cultural attitudes about the relative worth of early childhood education and especially the educators themselves. Preschool teachers are paid a pittance and receive little respect especially when compared to post-secondary educators, although attitudes do seem to be improving. Still, it will take a huge shift in priorities and perception to overcome this and truly give early childhood education the attention it, and our children, deserve.
So what's a concerned parent to do? I mean, something we all aren't doing already? Because already, those who can stay home and play pattycake and get shunned from playgroups are doing so. And those who need to work because the family needs the income are doing so as well, and are finding the best possible child-care situations possible. I think, though, that raising the bar on what's available as "best possible" is a must. Too many parents are forced into choosing the least-objectionable child-care, and to me, to those parents, and to the children concerned, that's not good enough.
