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  • Cleaned-Up Fairy Tales Lose Their Bite

    I remember the first time I read a traditional fairy tale in its more original, Brothers Grimm version. Grim indeed –I was shocked at the lurid nature of the fairly gentle story I’d known as a child.

    In fact, most of the most famous fairy tales stem from oral tradition, and serve as allegory. Little Red Riding Hood is about sexual awakening, Cinderella about children’s fears over losing their parents, and Rapunzel about fertility.

    And it’s a very sanitized version of Rapunzel that got writer Joanna Weiss all wound up.

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  • Princesses Bad For Girls

    There are many things I am profoundly grateful for, especially regarding my daughter.  One of the more minor ones is this: She's three and so far blessedly free of the Disney Princess contagion. Until yesterday, when allowed to choose a present from the potty training bribe bag (a bag of cheap dollar store presents which please God are not chock-full of lead), she picked a tinsel tiara. She was remarkably pleased with the effect. And then she said the words I have been fearing: "I want a princess costume."
    Timely, at least, because I'd been mulling this Barbara Ehrenreich piece from The Nation. It's full of her typical razor wit, annd mostly spot-on. While I think she goes a little far – equating princesses with date rape drugs? Really? – I agree that the whole phenomenon is lame, lame, lame, and not especially healthy for little girls.

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  • Disney: Mean To Girls For Ages

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    Ever since my kid could say, "I wuv Sweeping Beauwty" she's been getting the strident friendly mom-with-a-women's-studies-background blather about how the Disney princesses should just save themselves and why are they so passive? I came down as pro-Mulan early on, which led to some discussions about how girls have historically been excluded and isn't that weird and that's why Mulan had to pretend she was a boy to fight in the army. As a result, my kid now claims sexual equality is measured by the fact that girls can fight in battles. Sigh.

    But look, Disney has had a long legacy of being not-so-nice to chicks, and this letter from 1938 is an interesting example, via boing boing. Miss Ford got turned down for animator training school because she was female. I guess if we look at the stationary, it's clear a woman's purpose is to be leered at by seven creepy, dirty little guys, not for the tough man's work of drawing shit. Even the woodland creatures agree.


  • Pink Genes Are For Girls

    disney princessAre girls hard-wired to be all into pink and princesses? If you are looking for the answers, you probably won't find them here. For example:

    "The reason why girls like pink is that their brains are structured completely differently to boys," says child psychologist Dr Michael Carr-Gregg. "Part of the brain that processes emotion and part of the brain that processes language is one and the same in girls but is completely different in boys. This explains so much - you can give a girl a truck and she'll cuddle it. You can give a boy a Barbie doll and he'll rip its head off. These differences are hard-wired at birth but you can't take away the cultural conditioning, which helps it along a bit."

    Oh. So pink is, um, nurturing? Or about language and emotion? I'm so confused. See, I don't get how the princess thing and the pink thing and the cuddly-emotion thing are one and the same. However, explanations are clearly not part of the recipe of newsflashes in this one. Let me summarize the rest for you. Disney markets the princess thing to little girls! Barbies might or might not be bad for girls! Bratz are too sexualized, and that is not good!

    I do love this quote from a Mattel rep, defending Barbie's educational value by citing the company's launch of Barbie and Tanner, her dog that really poos. "You can actually clean his poo up with a pooper scooper, so it teaches them that if they take their dog for a walk, it's good to do the right thing by the environment." Wow. That doll has some really important lessons to share with us. Like "it's good to clean up poo". Sorry, my hysterical laughter is making it hard to write.

    While it's hard to take this all seriously, I'd just like to add I find it interesting people somehow think cultural conditioning is this little thing you can just get over easily, while genes are the real deal. We are social animals; our socialization is what makes us human. I'd say that's just as powerful as a gene. Gawd, I'm such a faux-grad student.   


  • Disney Princess Wedding Gowns: Who Would Wear These?

    When I first read about Disney's new line of adult-sized wedding gowns "inspired" by the Disney Princess entourage, I laughed it off.  I just figured that the idea would fizzle, and that no adult woman would want to be caught dead - let alone married - in a replica of Cinderella's pouffy, Princess Di-reject ballgown.

    Boy, was I wrong.  According to Andy Mooney, chairman of Disney Consumer Products Worldwide, when the company began developing the marketing concept of the princesses six  ago, they discovered that they didn't have to stop at 2- to 8-year-olds girls. "We've been blown away how strong the demand is for princess thematic things in almost every stage of a woman's life," he said.

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  • Disney More than Frozen Body; Now with More Racism!

    Hope you didn't already book those travel plans to Disney World this summer! Because this video is an eye opener. The Media Education Foundation explores the darker side of the Disney Empire -- the all trusted, all innocent, all knowing media conglomeration.

    From highly sexualized female cartoon leads that haven't changed much in appearance since the 1940s to entire movies about Africa without any black people in them to the idea that it's a woman's job to overlook a violent, brooding beast to find a true prince, the video uncovers a not-so flattering side of the happiest mega-corporation in the world.

    It's definitely worth a look if you're not afraid of being locked away in the Disney Vault ....


  • Disney Licenses "Princess" Wedding Gowns

    Oh, goodie. As if it's not annoying enough that my four-year-old wakes up every morning, stretches, and then announces "Today I'm going to be Princess Aurora"--or "Belle", or "Jasmine", or whichever princess persona happens to strike her fancy that day. Now Disney's marketing machine is attempting to ensure that she never, ever grows out of her Princess phase. They've launched a new line of wedding gowns inspired by their princess posse and designed for real adult brides who should know better. Bridesmaid's dresses will be "maidens' dresses". Accessories will be referred to as "jewels". And the centerpieces of the collection will be the $1100-2900 bridal gowns inspired by Disney's cash cows.

    Disney's hoping to tap further into their lucrative wedding segment (about 2000 couples marry at Disney World every year) by offering a piece of the Disney wedding experience to people who'd rather get married at home.  

    Do not tell my four-year-old. Please. I'm praying for the day she wakes up and just decides to be herself for once.  



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