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Mom Gives 9-Year-Old Marijuana

Posted by Madeline Holler

Writer Marie Myung-Ok Lee pushes marijuana on her 9-year-old son. She mixes it in cookies and teas. She offers him hits from a bong-like vaporizer -- whatever it takes to get him high. But she's not some kind of hard-partying "if it feels good, do it" hippie mom. 

Lee is trying to help her autistic son, who spends large parts of his days and nights in pain from an inflammatory bowel condition and the results of an operation on his spinal cord. And also from aggression that is symptomatic of his autism.

Does it work? Mmmm kind of. Is it illegal? Sort of but not really.

Lee lives in Rhode Island, one of 13 states that has legalized the use of marijuana for medical reasons. Her son's doctor signed off on it. The benefit to her son is better sleep, less aggression and a way to avoid "sedating, antipsychotic drugs like Risperdal."

Writing for Double X, an excellent new smarty pants women-focused Web site that launched yesterday, Lee explains how she settled on pot, how she gets it an, so far, whether it's working.

But since we started him on his "special tea," J’s little face, which is sometimes a mask of pain, has softened. He smiles more. For the last year, his individual education plan at his special-needs school was full of blanks, recording “no progress” because he spent his whole day an irritated, frustrated mess. Now, April’s report shows real progress, including “two community outings with the absence of aggressions.

Anybody else out there medicating with pot? What do you think of this mom's solution? What about the criminalization of marijuana in the first place?

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Comments

 

lovedannygansle said:

If I had an autistic child that exhibited similar symptoms, I would consider a relocation to Rhode Island.  I imagine the level of desperation for relief and improvement is sky high in this type of case.

May 13, 2009 2:38 PM
 

TheBrooklet said:

Have you seen the list of side effects on some of these medications they prescribe our children?  Suicide, sleep walking & eating, amnesia for events, aggression, not to mention nausea, vomiting and the like.  I say go for the pot.  It's natural, readily available, and seems to be working for this family.  When you compare the meds vs. the mary jane, it just makes sense.

May 13, 2009 2:40 PM
 

Bunny said:

It's absurd that a drug that literally cannot possibly kill you is illegal. Kudos to this mom, and to Rhode Island, and I hope this helps her child function better.

May 13, 2009 5:36 PM
 

Vitamin T said:

Cigarrettes are legal, alcohol is legal, each of them is more dangerous than marijuana. At least if it was legalized the government could tax its sales and put the money towards other things and maybe help us get out of this financial mess a little faster. It would also stop making criminals out of people who are not. Then of course there's the medicinal benefits to it as this article describes. I see no reason to keep recreational marijuana illegal to any one (above a certain age of course), and medicinal marijuana use to anyone who needs it.

May 14, 2009 1:22 AM
 

Whit Honea said:

Good for her.  

Seems like legalizing pot could go a long way in helping the economy- not to mention easing the prison populations.  Maybe it makes too much sense.

May 14, 2009 12:36 PM
 

Angela Brandt said:

I wholeheartedly agree with the previous posters. I would do anything to ensure that my son was not in constant pain - even this.

May 14, 2009 3:46 PM
 

Eric said:

No poor child deserves to be attacked by marijuana when it is SUPPOSED to be protected!

May 15, 2009 5:05 AM
 

des said:

I think that marijuana shouldn't be illeagle in the first place, ciggaresttes and alcohol aren't and they are worse/just as bad for you. I say this as a person who has never done any of them, so I think I'm pretty objective. If it helps the child and makes his life a little easier, then I say it's a good thing.

As for Eric's comment, protect him from marijuana? Should we protect him from sedatives and other medicines as well. Of course she has to force it on him! Have you ever been around an autistic child? Austistic children don't like change, so she'd have to hide it in cookies, etc..

May 20, 2009 7:41 PM

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