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Boy Calls 911 to Report a Missing Mother

A six-year-old boy displayed far more common sense than his mother after he woke up in the middle of the night and discovered that his mom was gone. After wandering through the house looking for her, he went out to the garage and saw that her car was missing. That’s when he called 911.

When deputies arrived at around 2 a.m., the scared boy was standing in the garage with his four-year-old sister. Their mother, 23-year-old Megan Rene Hester, returned home soon thereafter, having been away from the house for at least half an hour. She told police that she had simply run to the convenience store to buy gasoline while her kids were sleeping.

Because her house was clean and her children appeared to be healthy, police did not file charges against the woman. They notified the State Attorney’s office and child welfare workers of the situation, leaving it up to these parties to take action if they felt it was necessary to do so.

I’m certainly glad that a traumatic situation for these young kids was not made worse by having to watch their mother get arrested, but I do hope child welfare agents take this case seriously. If the boy hadn’t remained so calm and resourceful, this could have been a far worse situation for everyone involved.

Do you think the mother should have been charged with child endangerment?

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Comments

 

cnoelk said:

I absolutely think she should be charged. I can understand the temptation to duck out (assuming that's all it was) if you have good sleepers, but you have to consider what could happen while you are away. Heaven for bid fire or other mishap had occurred while she was out. I consider the behavior neglect, plain and simple.

April 27, 2009 10:46 AM
 

Knitty said:

"Because her house was clean and her children appeared to be healthy, police did not file charges against the woman."

Oh the classism, it just *reeks*.  She left a toddler and a six-year-old alone in the middle of the night to go SHOPPING, but no charges are brought because her house was clean?  And how is this different from the woman who left her (much older) children to take a walk home and has been charged with everything in the book?  If that was child abandonment, then so is this.

I've heard of people who "duck out" while their little ones are sleeping, but I can't imagine doing that.  What is there was a fire?  What is they woke up and went wandering around the house, getting into god-knows-what?  I think I'd have six panic attacks on my way down the street.

April 27, 2009 11:12 AM
 

Sabrina said:

It's tempting to do this, especially if you live really close to the place you need to go.  If you realize late at night that you forgot to get gas, or have no bread left to make the kids' lunches, or you need female hygiene products, etc.  I can certainly see the temptation.  

Personally, I don't really like to go outside and garden during DS's nap even if I have the baby monitor with me, and he's almost 3, gated into a very secure area, and I can hear his every movement!  

In all fairness all these "what if" scenarios are so entirely unlikely, the percentage of times something like that happens in an otherwise SAFE household with otherwise DECENT parents is probably infinitesemally small.

No, I don't think she should be charged with anything, but I think she should get a darned good talking to.  Despite the fact that those kids we probably just as safe as if Mom had been sleeping, it's still against the law to leave your children completely unattended.

April 27, 2009 1:19 PM
 

ChiLaura said:

Someone I know, when pregnant and craving ice cream, called her house phone with her cell phone and put the house phone next to her sleeping 6 y/o, then went half a block down the street to buy some ice cream, while listening on the cell phone. Thru the cell phone, she'd be able to know if her caughter woke up. Though I wouldn't recommend it per se, I thought that it was kind of clever. I think that is totally different than driving away for 30 minutes.

April 27, 2009 5:06 PM
 

Hullk said:

Yes cause she could've waited and her kids could've been kidnapped

May 2, 2009 2:41 PM

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