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School Expels Teen for Birth Control Pill

Posted by JeanneSager

A teenager who popped her birth control pill during her lunch period at a Virginia school is spending her spring break fighting the district not to be expelled. 

The problem? That she did so during school hours. . . specifically, that she took a pill without supervision of the school nurse. 

Her mother says she's aware the girl violated school rules, but she's questioning just how far a school should go with its punishment. Two weeks suspension and recommended expulsion for taking a legally prescribed drug? Does that sound fair?

It's a problem for plenty of parents in America - not birth control per se - but medicine. Kids take a lot of it - just this week, a study showed the precipitous rise in the number of kids who require medication to control their blood pressure and diabetes. And those are just two diseases. What about asthma, allergies, ADHD? Not to mention your standard headache or menstral cramps which could use an over-the-counter fix. All legal drugs, and not always feasible to take at home. Some medicines require several dosages in a day, for example, spaced out over time. Others require kids take them at the same time of day, every day. And a headache doesn't come on to suit the school schedule. 

Meanwhile, schools are steadily trying to fight the tide of youthful prescription drug abusers in the America - a number that's up fivefold in the twelve-to-seventeen bracket in the past decade and a half. They call for students to take all medicines to the nurse's office, where the school health official is charged with handing out the prescription drugs to the students at the appropriate time in the appropriate dose. 

It's what the girl in Fairfax should have done, what even her mom admits she should have done. Unfortunately, it doesn't work for every kid. In part because some school districts refuse to condone over-the-counter medications because they do not come with a doctor's note that can be kept in the nurse's office. And in part because kids need medicines at different times during the day; times when the nurse's office isn't always open. Some schools have cut back on the availability of nursing staff too, sharing one nurse for several buildings - so kids end up handing their medicines over to office staff, who parents argue are often even less informed about the proper use of the medication than the kids themselves, who have been taking the drugs for years. 

And school districts have gone overboard. The Washington Post article that shares the Fairfax family's story cites a since-overturned law from Maryland that required a doctor's note for kids to put on sunscreen. Really? Because we'd rather the kids all end up with skin cancer over a legal substance that's available over the counter in any Wal-Mart in the country, for sale to anyone of any age?

With birth control too there's the worry that being so strict on teens dulls the efficacy of the fight against teen pregnancy. Wouldn't we rather our teens were taking the pill than skipping it? And despite the school's claims that this wasn't about what kind of drug but the fact that it was a drug, period, I can't help but wondering if they would have threatened explusion over, I don't know, aspirin? I'm not defending the girl in Virginia for her actions - birth control pills are to be taken at the same time every day, but there's no reason she couldn't have been on a schedule of taking them in the morning before school or at night.

She was wrong and deserved to be punished, but isn't expulsion for a LEGAL drug a little much? Do you feel the schools have gone too far in reaching into our medicine cabinets?

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Comments

 

tristan said:

I perssonally think it is way out of context. 1)birth control is very important for teenage girls cause lets face it as a dad i know its going to happen dont want it to but going to happen. 2) yes maybe she should have takin it at home but what are we teaching them when a legal prescription gets expulsion but if it wasnt im sure it wouldnt be any more than two weeks suspension

April 8, 2009 4:45 PM
 

Jamie said:

Obviously the girl broke the rules, but expelling her for taking a medicine she was prescribed seems over-the-top.  Take out of the mix for a second that it was birth control- this is a medication that she was prescribed by a physician.  It's not like she was popping uppers or something.  The punishment doesn't seem to fit the crime.

April 8, 2009 5:19 PM
 

Sheri said:

it is another CYA issue.  What happens if a child takes an OTR drug and keeps it in her purse, and when she takes one and her friend wants one too....only said friend has an allergic reaction???

Yeah, I don't recall sharing my birth control with anyone, but Midol??? Yep.  

And wouldn't it make things easier to keep illegal drugs in an asprin container???  

I'm not saying the school is being completely logical in expelling this girl, but if the girl was awar of the policy and mom knew she was taking birth control, why not just go to the nurse for it?  or the office???  

April 8, 2009 5:25 PM
 

BJ Budtch said:

"Going overboard" is right. And though I agree that schools should be allowed to implement their own rules, they should have no business interfering with prescriptions, first and foremost. These people are clueless dolts if they think there isn't going to be a major lawsuit.

Yet another example of people who don't know the power of small-- this was probably a tossed-off, two-second decision for them, and one that will have have major consequences.

April 8, 2009 5:35 PM
 

Hoku said:

What has this world come to?? There are too many high school pregnancies to begin with in America.. I really feel it was uncalled for and inconvenient for the child parents to fight for there the child to reverse from being expelled.  He we are as parents trying to teach our children to be responsible enough to take care of themselves and some school should have the same sense to know that any sexual contraception is better then none...  I am just amazed that she would have to go the school nurse and take whats suppose to be confidential granted the school found out but still that should be her and the parents choice..

Teen sex prevention should be taught in every aspect meaning positive and informational.  

What if she forgot to take it at home and just remembered to take it at that moment.  PLEASE!!

These people need a reality check on what they should be monitoring...

Lets not forget what kind of world we live in and how sex is so publicized..

It is our duty as parents,aunties,uncles,grandma,grandpa and "SCHOOLS" to teach them that sexual intercourse is sacred and should not have to feel like its the "IN" thing..

Just venting because I have a daughter...

April 8, 2009 5:43 PM
 

BostonMama said:

God lord.  We have lost our collective minds as a society.  Teenagers are perfectly capable of taking medicine OTC or prescribed without supervision from a school nurse.  Schools should have rules that make sense -- no illegal drugs, no narcotics; I can see the issue if she was taking vicodin, but a birth control pill???  Seriously people.

Maybe she keeps the pack in her locker so mommy and daddy don't stop her from taking it (or beat her or her boyfriend).  Do you really think a kid in that situation is going to bring her prescription to the nurses office and go down at lunch time everyday to get her dose.

Think about it... it's probably legal for this girl to drive to school in a Hummer but not for her to pop a BCP at lunch without supervision?  Which is more likely to kill her or someone else?

April 8, 2009 6:14 PM
 

Amanda B. said:

All this nonsense can be summed up in one word - lawsuits. If it weren't for frivolous lawsuits, none of these crazy rules would be in place.

April 8, 2009 8:35 PM
 

leahsmom said:

This has been an issue for some young diabetic students I know - one girl has to go to the nurse's office to test her sugars and take insulin - she should by all rights be able to do the former in the classroom, and Type 1 diabetics need routine testing (especially children, whose sugars are volatile) - I test 6-10 times/day, myself.  She misses an hour a day from school for these things, and it means her diabetes has become a real impediment to her learning, something I was lucky to avoid when I was a kid because they didn't have those kinds of rules.

April 9, 2009 12:40 PM
 

Twyla said:

I agree with Amanda.

Frivilous lawsuits have made some pretty stupid rules mandatory. I could not attempt a VBAC because someone sued a gyno at one time. A doctor in my area just lost a lawsuit claiming he did not save the life of a girl trying to commit suicide. Yeah, she did what she planned and the doctor got charged with it. The parents won thier case.

What if the drug were something else or disguised in a different container? Then would a parent be able to sue the school because thier kid obtained it on school property? Look at the article on this same blogsite about the teenager who was texting at school. Commenters wanted to blaim the teachers for allowing it. Ridiculous. Until we stop playing the victim to every occurance in life, we can keep expecting the Cover Your Ass rules to be in full effect.

April 9, 2009 5:17 PM

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Jeanne Sager is a writer who lives in upstate New York with her husband, daughter, a dog and too many cats. She refuses to believe motherhood comes with pumpkin appliqued sweaters, and she';s not ready to apologize for having only one child. She writes about raising her kid in her own hometown and the mom stuff she's not embarrassed to own at her blog, Inside Out (http://jeannesager.blogspot.com), she's contributing editor of Grand Magazine, and she's a regular essayist here on Babble

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