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Teacher Fired for Letting Kids Play Gay

Posted by JeanneSager

Note to all teachers with small-minded administrators - don't bother trying to teach your kids about history. At least not homosexual history. 

A teacher in a rural Oklahoma town has been fired by administrators after trying to teach the story of gay college student Matthew Shepard's murder by assigning students parts in The Laramie Project, a play based on the hate crime inflicted on the young homosexual man a decade ago. 

Of course, officials say it isn't the play itself that prompted the firing. Debra Taylor dared let her students voice their opinions about the school's decision to CANCEL the play that earned her a place on the chopping block. 

When her principal told her the play - which he'd previously given permission to Taylor to put on - had to be stopped, she let her kids spend twenty minutes in a local park, writing their feelings on helium balloons and releasing them (not enviro-friendly, but at the very least offering some catharsis). Taylor says she never asked the kids to change their minds about homosexuality, just to be tolerant. 

The park stunt is what administrators say was Taylor's undoing. What about it was wrong, they won't say. Perhaps that she let kids voice dissent? That she voiced dissent? That she did something else that might, possibly, maybe make the kids think again about tolerance and respecting others? 

Because cancellation of the play to begin with was inappropriate, but it might have had a very positive affect on the kids. Suddenly, they saw it was like to be discriminated against. After several weeks of hard work put into practicing for their production, they had the rug swept out from under them by school officials - and for no reason. 

And how's this for irony? The school punished Debra Taylor, but her job loss makes her a role model for kids. Kind of what we always hope our kids' teachers will be.

Image: USA Today

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Comments

 

TwinHappyJen said:

Wow... I guess something like this shouldn't surprise me, but it does... that this kind of open discrimination is STILL going on is despicable.

March 19, 2009 10:58 AM
 

Nicole said:

Jezebel had an article about an identical incident involving the play Rent...discrimination has GOT to stop!

March 19, 2009 2:29 PM
 

Misty said:

I am stuck in Oklahoma right now (due to spouse's job). This doesn't surprise me at all. Oklahomans take pride in their prejudices and stupidity. I bet the locals are holding up the administration of that school as holy heroes. Remember, every county in this stated voted for McCain. Good grief.

March 19, 2009 4:41 PM
 

Twyla said:

How old are these kids? It is one thing to teach tolerance and yet another to define what is morally acceptable. The school is to teach my children math, history, science, etc. I will teach my children morals at home.

I am not ashamed to say that if my kid were in this class (assuming it is not at the high school level) they would have been hanging out somewhere else while play practice went on.

March 19, 2009 4:41 PM
 

Amber said:

@ Twyla

What if the play was about racism rather than homophobia?

I don't see how one can opt their children out of learning about social justice.

March 19, 2009 8:16 PM
 

Lula said:

I think school's a fine place to teach children that beating someone senseless, tying them to a fencepost, and leaving them there to die from exposure is morally unacceptable. Of course I hope parents are also reinforcing that message at home, but just in case...

"The Laramie Project" is an examination of lynching, not an examination of homosexuality. Matthew Shepherd was lynched, pure and simple. He was lynched for being openly gay, just like other Americans have been lynched for their skin color, religion, or immigrant status. You'd think that parents would be *pleased* that their children and their children's teachers wanted to spread the anti-lynching message via community theater. WTF?

March 19, 2009 8:57 PM
 

Twyla said:

Again, my question is thier age. How old are these kids? No, I don't want my elementary student or middle school student to be diving so deeply into such a disturbing story. I am not raising lynchers nor am I raising mean, intolerant kids. My kids are very peaceloving and kind.

I honestly do not know the story or the play. It sounds horrific and terrifying.

Amber- To answer your question I would not want my kids doing a play about racism either. At thier ages now, I find it inappropriate.

March 19, 2009 10:57 PM
 

Twyla said:

www.buzzflash.com/.../142

This blog states that it is a high school ethics class and they were recreating scenes from the movie.

That is different. High schools do need to address these issues (especially in an ethics class, for heaven's sake). I will change my answer to agreeing that it is ridiculous that she was fired.

March 19, 2009 11:03 PM
 

Lula said:

You should check out the movie version of "The Laramie Project", Twyla. You can watch most of it in 10-minute segments on Youtube.

March 20, 2009 4:10 PM
 

Lula said:

And on the subject of middle school/junior high students and appropriateness, etc: Honestly, I think middle school (6th-8th grade) is exactly the time when schools *should* start exposing students to stories like Matthew Shepard's, (Teena) Brandon's, and Larry King's. Larry King was in junior high himself, openly identified as gay, and was killed last year by another junior-high student who had a serious homophobia problem. Sexual-minority youth are also at a greatly increased risk for suicide compared to heterosexual youth. Start confronting the community and personal violence that results from both internalized and externalized homophobia early, and maybe more youth can make it to age 25+ without inflicting violence on themselves or on those who they fear.

March 20, 2009 4:36 PM
 

mchaos said:

I agree.  Middle school seems the time to start teaching about the evils of intolerance.  

March 20, 2009 5:35 PM
 

Manjari said:

I think everyone should see the Laramie Project.

March 21, 2009 5:45 PM
 

Twyla said:

I agree in teaching nonviolence and tolerance.

In our rural and conservative town these issues don't really come up. I know that sounds redneck-ish but please hear me out. I teach my kids that we are to be kind to everyone. The school teaches a lot of anti-bullying things. My kids go to schools that have no-tolerance-bully guidelines.

I just think some of these stories are a bit too narrow. We should learn to embrace everyone who thinks, looks, and acts different then we do. Trust me these conversations come up all the time. My kids are very kind and would be the last ones to hurt someone.

March 22, 2009 1:27 AM
 

Manjari said:

I'm not sure what you mean when you say that some of "these stories" are a bit too narrow. There is only one story being discussed here, and it is a true one. I still remember this being on the news when it happened. It made a big impact on me.

"In our rural and conservative town these issues don't really come up."

If you watch the movie version of the Laramie Project, you'll find that many residents of Laramie had that same feeling. The teacher who was fired for complaining about the cancellation of this production was working in a rural town in Oklahoma. I'm sure it's a very nice town full of very nice people. These are often precisely the communities in which greater awareness and acceptance of differences may be needed.

March 22, 2009 5:43 PM

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