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Contact Lenses Boost Kids’ Self-Esteem

A new study has officially proven what we all know through common sense: kids feel more confident in contact lenses than glasses. The three-year study of nearly 500 children aged 8 to 11 found that contacts significantly boost kids’ physical confidence, feelings of acceptance amongst their peers, and athletic ability (for the simple reason that kids who wear glasses are less likely to play sports).

I remember the glasses-wearer’s humiliation all too well.  Every time I wore my subtle, tasteful glasses in middle school, I felt like there was an ugly monstrosity in the center of my face. Like almost any 12-year-old, I opted for a blurry world over minor embarrassment, using my glasses only when absolutely necessary. The day I got contact lenses, I felt reborn: you mean you could see all the time without being mortified? It was almost too good to be true.

It’s good to know that there’s a relatively easy (though a bit costly) way to make kids feel better about themselves. But it’s also sad that something as minor as glasses is enough to make kids feel embarrassed and excluded.

Still, if my parents had tried to explain that to me instead of caving to my desire for contacts, it would have been all-out war. And now even research shows that contacts might not be the wisest battle to pick.  

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Comments

 

JeanneSager said:

I wore glasses until 10th grade - and I can tell you not only did it make me FEEL better to get contacts, but it made life easier.

I could suddenly SEE everything because I now had peripheral vision. I didn't have to be the dork in goggles in gym class (although I was still klutzy). I didn't have to worry about my glasses slipping down my nose or the pads creating zits on my nose.

Now if only they could make them so they don't tear so easily . . .

March 6, 2009 5:40 PM
 

Sara said:

I've worn glassees since I was 8, and i'm 24 now...So I totally relate to all the poor kids out there who are stuck in glasses. My family could never afford to get contacts, glasses were expensive enough when you, your 2 sisters AND your mom have to wear them. So unfortunately for me I never got to feel better about myself :(

March 6, 2009 7:58 PM
 

mchaos said:

I never had glasses, but I always liked them.  I thought most kids who had them looked more unique & cool.  But then I was a dork, so who cared about my opinion? :)

March 6, 2009 8:41 PM
 

Stacie said:

I started wearing glasses at 12 or so, but I never wanted contacts. Still don't. Hm.

March 6, 2009 11:36 PM
 

leahsmom said:

I wore glasses from a young age, and I loved having contacts.  It made me feel like I looked more "normal" - and, as the kid who carried around syringes and had to shoot up in the classroom (insulin), I really appreciated that. And I hear you about the peripheral vision - swimming in contacts and goggles was so much easier than without (because I couldn't have afforded prescription goggles)!  But I over-wore them - slept in them, et c., so now my eyes don't tolerate them anymore.

March 8, 2009 7:52 PM
 

Twintown said:

Add me to the list of people who can testify to this.  I started wearing glasses in 3rd grade and finally got contacts in 10th.  I felt like a new person, and was definitely a lot more confident.  Now I'm gunning for LASIK surgery so I can just open my eyes and see!

March 9, 2009 9:24 AM
 

Bunny said:

This study seems like a bit of a no-brainer - remove something kids get picked on for relentlessly, and of course their self-esteem improves. My parents waited until I was 13 to let me get contacts, and I really wish they had done it sooner - it was pretty awful.

March 9, 2009 6:06 PM

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Hannah Tennant-Moore is a Brooklyn-based freelance writer whose work has appeared or is forthcoming in Best Buddhist Writing (2008); The Sun; Guantanamo: Inside the Prison, Outside the Law; Tricycle; Turning Wheel (as the winner of the Young Writers Award); and elsewhere.

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