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Chicago Doula Works With Poor Pregnant Teens

Posted by Miriam Axel-Lute

For all those tempted to think of a doula as a luxury who merely provides pampering, it's worth taking a little time to watch A Doula Story.

Loretha Weisinger, the subject of the documentary, a former teen mom herself, works with pregnant teens in a poor area of Chicago. She's really a combination of childbirth educator, doula, lactation consultant, and parenting educator, which is a hell of a job, but clearly a crucial one.

I keep remembering the moment where she takes a cell phone away from a new mom who's trying to breastfeed in the hospital in order to tell her boyfriend that, no, breastfeeding isn't "nasty." Or her careful explanation that she wasn't going to leave the delivery room until one of her "girls" was ready to hold her baby and got to do so. Or her repeated insistence that her girls actually talk to their babies, in utero and out.

It's not exactly a feel-good flick, as the lives of these girls, and Loretha herself, are hard. But it also shies away from what I came to realize, as I found myself tensing for it, must be a stock documentary habit of sticking a tragedy in somewhere around 2/3 of the way through. No deaths or horrendous confessions. Just the day-to-day work of trying to improve the lives of babies and parents.

(Hat-tip: Citizens for Midwifery)

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CoolDoulasRule said:

I gotta say, this woman is not alone. I know that while I paid a good chunk of money for my doula, she also does a lot of work for free for teen and single moms in the area. In our case, this is mostly poor native american girls from a local reservation. But the same thing applies- she's a doula, LC, parenting teacher, you name it.

Thank god for people like this. She was great for me, a middle class married woman at a birth center, but I know she is incredibly crucial for those 18 year old scared girls that she also works with.

I hope I get to see this documentary!

March 6, 2009 2:54 PM
 

Elendy said:

Bellevue hospital, here in New York City, actually has a wonderful volunteer doula program at their in-hospital birth center, which mostly serves low-income women. It's also interesting to note that the majority of midwives actually work with low-income women and communities. I feel like a lot of people have begun to associate midwives (and doulas especially) with the upper-middle class, but the reality and the history of the profession, is actually quite different.

March 6, 2009 3:06 PM
 

Miriam Axel-Lute said:

The documentary can be watched for free at the link in the post by the way! Sorry if that wasn't clear.

March 6, 2009 3:10 PM
 

Lee said:

CoolDoulasRule: My doula and others in her local association also provide pro-bono support for underprivileged mothers. I think the type of women who work in this field tend to be very selfless and empathetic.

March 6, 2009 4:15 PM
 

Twyla said:

A friend of mine also does all the things listed in the article for teen moms in our area in Southern Oregon. She is amazing, patient, kind and wonderful.

March 7, 2009 11:30 PM

About Miriam Axel-Lute

Miriam Axel-Lute is a freelance writer, editor, poet, and urban planning junkie. She lives, works, and gardens in Albany, NY, with her two partners and daughter.

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