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Organic Dreams or Toxic Nightmares? You Pick

Posted by JeanneSager

I wasn't sure if I should feel like a bad parent or a bit of a grinch when I read this New York Times piece on the plight of parents trying to green every bit of their baby's world.

Keeping this mom up at night wasn't SIDS or milk production. She wants to known what's lurking inside her son's "organic" mattress.

Breaking down the confusing world of just what qualifies as a "safe" mattress, the article explains the root of parents' fears: fire retardants used to protect families from fires in bed have been found to show up in breastmilk, and some (discontinued) foams lead to nervous and reproductive systems in animals in 2004 study. Today, the materials used to make mattresses are largely proprietary, and the term "organic" can refer simply to the use of some organic cotton in the batting. What's more, the memory foam that's purported to give you a great night's sleep is a petroleum product.

Scary stuff. Definitely enough to make you question your parenting prowess if the main criteria used for picking your kid's mattress was "will a diaper blow-out be easy to clean at 2 a.m.?" Because that, next to cost, topped my list when it came to picking my daughter's crib mattress.

To be fair, "phthalate" wasn't a buzzword in early 2005 when I registered for my baby shower. But even since it has been bandied about, I haven't rushed to her room to chuck her mattress and pile the bed with organic cotton blankets. And, frankly, after reading this, I'm no more inclined to do so.

The Times piece - like so much of what is coming out these days about toxins - makes for worthy, interesting (and in-depth) reading. But it provides no real answers. It doesn't say mattresses are good, but there's little to point to anything wrong with it either. So I'll focus my fears where I know they're founded for now - and when it comes time to buy a "big girl" mattress, I'll read up once again to see if newer news can shed light on my questions.

Image: New York Times

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Comments

 

midwife said:

I wish I had enough money to worry about this.

January 18, 2009 1:22 PM
 

Sue said:

Does a person who worries about this ever wonder how any people survive, then  does she give a chuckle and stop worrying?

OTOH, when I was a first-time mother I actually thought that the brand of laundry detergent I used would make my son a better person (no, he didn't have allergies or anything).

January 18, 2009 7:13 PM
 

Elendy said:

Oh I'm so glad that other commenters had the same reaction to this that I did - basically WTF???!!!

So maybe I'm totally selfish and insane, but a part of me is actually looking forward to this recession getting worse so that people like the woman in this article will finally shut up and start worrying about something legitimate...

January 18, 2009 8:46 PM
 

Knitty said:

I'm with you, Elendy.  There's a lot of people who need a good long hard recession.

January 19, 2009 12:43 PM
 

kelly said:

I think it's easy to lose persepective on buying green products for your children, and maybe that's what commenters like Knitty are reacting to. But, with regard to mattresses, I think there's a real concern here. PBDEs are suspected neurotoxins, according to the research I did when figuring out what kind of crib mattress to buy. I know we can't protect our child from all of the nasty chemicals out there, but we bought an organic mattress because it seemed like a bad idea to have our baby sleep on a mattress that's exuding neurotoxin during a period of intensive brain development. We really don't have a lot of money and live on a very low budget, but it made sense to make this a priority.

The previous comments also seem to reflect a belief that if something's on the market, it must be safe. I don't share this naive faith in the marketplace to regulate itself to protect consumers - I don't know how anyone who has been paying attention can.

January 20, 2009 4:48 PM

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Jeanne Sager is a writer who lives in upstate New York with her husband, daughter, a dog and too many cats. She refuses to believe motherhood comes with pumpkin appliqued sweaters, and she';s not ready to apologize for having only one child. She writes about raising her kid in her own hometown and the mom stuff she's not embarrassed to own at her blog, Inside Out (http://jeannesager.blogspot.com), she's contributing editor of Grand Magazine, and she's a regular essayist here on Babble

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