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The Demise of the Fairy Tale

Do you read traditional fairy tales to your kids? If so, you are in a dwindling group of parents. According to a survey of 3,000 British parents, Snow White and Hansel and Gretel are increasingly being replaced by happier modern favorites like Gruffalo and The Very Hungry Caterpillar. 25 percent of parents choose not to ever read fairy tales to their kids and 65 percent do not choose fairy tales for bedtime stories.

According to the parents who object to fairytales, Cinderella is not empowered enough. Rapunzel is “too dark.” Little Red Hiding is a bad role model for kids because she walks alone in the woods. And one-tenth of parents believe Snow White is offensive because of the un-PC term “dwarf.”

I can certainly understand the need to carefully introduce your kids to fairy tales—some of them are pretty scary, and I’ll be the first to admit that being rescued from a life of servitude by a handsome prince is no healthy goal for a young girl. But if you’re going to shield your child from Cinderella so as to avoid imparting gender stereotypes, you would have to shield her from nearly all pop culture. If Little Red Riding Hood is violent or scary, even commercials for the latest Superman movie are downright terrifying. And if Snow White wrongly teaches young women the value of being the “fairest in all the land,” Bratz dolls wrongly teach girls to be the most scantily clad in all the land.

This is not to say that we should just give up on fighting media that gives kids the wrong messages, but perhaps Jack and the Beanstalk is not the best battlefield.  

Photo: The Daily Mail

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Comments

 

Hillary said:

I love fairytales. They're dark and scary, sometimes, but kids often imagine dark and scary things on their own. I'd much rather give my child the real, traditional version of these tales -- most of which are imparting a moral of some sort -- than some sanitized, too-happy version.

January 5, 2009 4:10 PM
 

teresa said:

We actually read our son the original Grimm's fairy tales...which are a lot darker but more interesting and instructive (and creepy and fun) than the sanitized versions.  I read them when I was a child, and I managed to turn out ok! And untraumatised.

January 5, 2009 7:59 PM
 

dreambeliever200 said:

I read the orginal Grimm's fairy tales as well! and I still love them!  

See, I always thought that Little Red Riding was a 'bad influence' because she walked alone in the woods...but I used it as a lesson. And you are totally right, Hillary. Kids imagine MUCH scarier things all on their own.

January 6, 2009 4:14 AM
 

Maybe June said:

Babble pretension strikes again!

There’s no such thing as an “original” when it comes to fairytales.  They are collective stories told and passed on and altered by each teller. They aren't owned by anyone and there is no correct version.

I enjoy the Grimm versions but they are not the original ones.  They are simply the versions the Grimm brothers collected and published.  They only represent a small portion of oral folktales from Germany.  They are no more authentic than any other version out there.  Even the Grimms later edited their own collection to accord with certain cultural expectations of the day.  Do you know if you are reading a version from their first publication (which was intended to preserve and distribute local folklore) or one of the later edited versions after editorial changes were made?

Despite what you might think of Disney, foreign, modern or funny versions, all fairytales are a response to our culture.  You can enjoy Grimm’s Little Red Riding Hood (or Cap), Dahl’s hilarious version and the movie Hoodwinked.

Or are you all such purists that you even read the racist and anti-semitic Grimm stories to your children?

January 6, 2009 12:36 PM
 

Nick said:

...was that honestly necessary, June? you speak of pretension and then troll away. how hypocritical.

January 6, 2009 5:54 PM

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Hannah Tennant-Moore is a Brooklyn-based freelance writer whose work has appeared or is forthcoming in Best Buddhist Writing (2008); The Sun; Guantanamo: Inside the Prison, Outside the Law; Tricycle; Turning Wheel (as the winner of the Young Writers Award); and elsewhere.

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