Do you read traditional fairy tales to your kids? If so, you
are in a dwindling group of parents. According to a survey of 3,000 British parents, Snow White and Hansel and Gretel are increasingly being replaced by happier modern favorites
like Gruffalo and The Very Hungry Caterpillar. 25 percent of parents choose not to ever read fairy tales to
their kids and 65 percent do not choose fairy tales for bedtime stories.
According to the parents who object to fairytales, Cinderella
is not empowered enough. Rapunzel is “too dark.” Little Red Hiding is a bad
role model for kids because she walks alone in the woods. And one-tenth of
parents believe Snow White is offensive
because of the un-PC term “dwarf.”
I can certainly understand the need to carefully introduce
your kids to fairy tales—some of them are
pretty scary, and I’ll be the first to admit that being rescued from a life of
servitude by a handsome prince is no healthy goal for a young girl. But if you’re
going to shield your child from Cinderella so as to avoid imparting gender
stereotypes, you would have to shield her from nearly all pop culture. If
Little Red Riding Hood is violent or scary, even commercials for the latest
Superman movie are downright terrifying. And if Snow White wrongly teaches
young women the value of being the “fairest in all the land,” Bratz dolls
wrongly teach girls to be the most scantily clad in all the land.
This is not to say that we should just give up on fighting
media that gives kids the wrong messages, but perhaps Jack and the Beanstalk is
not the best battlefield.
Photo: The Daily Mail
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