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On Jett Travolta, Howard Stern Gets It Right

Posted by Brett Singer

Jett Travolta and his parentsThis morning on Sirius XM Radio, Howard Stern commented on the death of John Travolta and Kelly Preston's son Jett Travolta. In the past, Howard has ruthlessly mocked Scientology; long before it was de rigeur to poke fun at L. Ron Hubbard's celebrity religion, he would read internal Scientology newsletters on the air, exposing their wackiness to the world at large. So one might expect Stern to go after Travolta with both barrels.

Not this time. He said that while some were going to condemn Travolta and Preston for not giving their son medication for what most people felt was autism, he wasn't going to go there, at least not today. Then he made the best point anyone can make about Jett's passing: "There's nothing sadder than burying your own child."

That phrase, "There's nothing sadder", gets thrown around much too easily in my opinion. For example, I once received an email from a parent telling me that there was "nothing sadder than an empty PTA meeting." So I wanted to give Stern credit for showing compassion, as well as use the opportunity to say something about the phrase "there's nothing sadder". Maybe I’m over-reacting, but it makes me nuts when people use it too freely. While I suppose it's possible that there is something sadder than burying your own child, I can guarantee you that there are many things sadder than an empty PTA meeting.

Now, lest you think that The Howard Stern Show has become an encounter group, he did later joke that kawasaki disease, which Jett reportedly suffered from, is a disease that "turns you into a motorcycle." (It was kind of a funny, throw away line said during a conversation.) So whatever you think of Howard or his long-running radio show, let's give him credit for getting this one right.

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Comments

 

Izzy said:

I don't mean to be cruel but you could just look at pictures of Jett and tell that there was something a bit off about him. I understand if they didn't want their son labeled but to just altogether deny it? In any case, I feel so sad for their family. Such a tragic loss...

January 5, 2009 5:12 PM
 

Sassy Smith said:

"There's nothing sadder" - so true.  Having buried a child, I couldn't agree more.

January 5, 2009 7:55 PM
 

JeanneSager said:

I read a headline today on my e-mail sign-in that said "Travolta devastated by loss of son." You think?

A loss of a child is a loss of a child - it doesn't matter if you're a celebrity or Joe Schmoe (Joe the Plumber, however . . . ). So why are people surprised by the fact that John Travolta and Kelly Preston are sad? They are grieving the worst loss anyone can suffer.

As a parent, there's an unwritten rule that you're supposed to go first. You're right Brett, there is simply nothing sadder.

January 5, 2009 8:00 PM
 

HDCS said:

Honestly, there's no room for anyone to give them flack on this one. Even if Jett was autistic, it has absolutely nothing to do with the poor kid's death. The family was attempting to manage his seizures as best possible and there's nothing more they could have done. Anyone trying to dredge up blame in this needs to back off and get a life.

January 5, 2009 10:30 PM
 

Sue said:

Wow--really, Jeanne? You know that Joe the Plumber wouldn't care if his child died?

It's always so interesting when liberals label themselves as the compassionate ones.

January 5, 2009 10:48 PM
 

steffmarcusky said:

Sue - get over yourself. It was a throw-away pot-shot. Yes, Joe the Plumber would be upset, even if he isn't a licensed plumber.

January 6, 2009 3:26 PM
 

Kate said:

How were they "attempting to manage his seizures as best they could", as someone said. Kelly Preston herself said he used to be on seizure medication, but it made them worse, so they took him off. Therefore, by her own admission, he was not on any kind of treatment for seizures. This is NOT what happens when someone's seizure medication fails. You don't "take them off", you adjust the medication or switch it until you find something that does work.

January 6, 2009 10:31 PM

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