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They Say: Shunning Gay Kids Bad for Their Health

Posted by JeanneSager

Gee, who would have ever thought being told they're just not good enough could be bad for kids?

Apparently researchers at the César E. Chávez Institute at San Francisco State University. They actually took money and did a full-fledged study to figure out gay kids are at higher risk for a number of health problems if they're shunned by their families. Ya think? 

What ever happened to funding studies that do things like - oh I don't know - find a cure for children's cancer? 

The study published in the Journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics showed a link between the family rejection of lesbian, gay and bisexual kids and a higher risk of a serious health problems, such as depression, illegal drug use, risk for HIV infection, and suicide attempts. Compared to kids who came from families who were accepting of their sexuality, those who experienced rejection were more than eight times more likely to have attempted suicide, almost six times more likely to be depressed, three times more likely to use illegal drugs and three times more likely to have unprotected sex. 

I'm not excusing the parents here - they need to get a grip. But let's say they struck sexuality from the criteria and looked simply at kids who were rejected by their families versus those we were accepted. I think you'd be hard-pressed to find a child who's mom or dad tells them they're worthless who hasn't contemplated suicide or wouldn't qualify for a dose of Prozac. 

It's encouraging that researchers are willing to look at sexuality in children - lending further credence to the fact that people are born gay (or straight), and evidence of sexuality in kids is natural. But sometimes, they just go too far to categorize kids and families. Gay kids need love. So do straight kids. If parents can't provide it, their kids are in trouble, period. 

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Comments

 

Lori said:

It's easy to bash sociological research (as opposed to biomedical research) for being "obvious". But, in the absence of well-designed studies published in peer-reviewed journals, people who believe that rejecting gay children is a legitimate strategy to get them to change or to instill their own values have just as much of a leg to stand on as those who believe that it's obvious that all children need love. The funding available for sociological research of this type is miniscule compared to what's given to biomedical research on cancer, no worries.

December 30, 2008 12:17 PM
 

Chiken said:

I agree with everything you said, Lori.  There are sadly many parents who think they are HELPING their gay children when they shame them.  Evidence to the contrary is important.

December 30, 2008 2:44 PM

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Jeanne Sager is a writer who lives in upstate New York with her husband, daughter, a dog and too many cats. She refuses to believe motherhood comes with pumpkin appliqued sweaters, and she';s not ready to apologize for having only one child. She writes about raising her kid in her own hometown and the mom stuff she's not embarrassed to own at her blog, Inside Out (http://jeannesager.blogspot.com), she's contributing editor of Grand Magazine, and she's a regular essayist here on Babble

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