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Are Email Holiday Cards Tacky?

Posted by Brett Singer

The Obama Family sent an email holiday card in 2006 - tacky?You know the drill. The holidays are coming and you need to get the family card ready. In my house, my wife takes the lead on this, mostly because I'm not inclined to do it. Some people are tremendously organized and take the whole process very seriously — photos taken by a professional no later than the 1st of November, cards printed by Thanksgiving, in the mail by December 1. Most people (our family included) use Shutterfly or another online photo service to get their cards made, which is a little boring but very easy.

Even easier, though, and certainly cheaper since there's no printing or postage, is the email card. I've received many from acquaintances and merchants, but I've only gotten a couple so far from family types. I'm not knocking anyone for doing it, especially if the reason is financial. At some point its fair to call The Annual Holiday Card a luxury item, even if it doesn't cost that much. I haven't priced them out so I don't know how much the cards will set you back. But they certainly aren't free, nor are the stamps. So if someone chooses to go this route, whatever the reason, that's your choice. (That's a disclaimer meant to make up for what I'm going to say next.)

Still, it's not the same, is it? The email card? Maybe I'm just old-fashioned but I still like to get regular mail (when it isn't a bill, catalog, or junk), and I enjoy hanging the holiday cards I receive on my door for everyone to see. I suppose you could print out the email card, but that seems a little silly.

So what do you think? Are the email cards tacky? (The Obamas did one in 2006 [see image at right], but I imagine that was for general supporters, rather than family and close friends.) And have you gotten/sent one yet?

image: respublica

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Comments

 

Em said:

We didn't send out an email card, but we did include a URL for our online newsletter on our cards. I'm a web designer, and it is easier for me to put something up on the website/blog than do print design of something that I'm not ashamed of.

December 22, 2008 2:42 PM
 

J said:

We did one this year for the first time.  Money is tight, we're expecting a new baby around the first of the year and will be sending out birth announcements at that point, and we just couldn't afford to do both.  I definitely prefer a real card, but I'd much rather get an email than nothing at all!  What I really like are the family updates and pictures, and it doesn't bother me if they come as an attachment!

December 22, 2008 7:20 PM
 

Alice said:

NO, they save trees, water and cut down on pollution generated to print them, deliver them to retailers and deliver them to recipients.  Greatest thing for the environment since solar panels. A "real" card is the sentiment included in the message or the contact made.  

December 22, 2008 8:33 PM
 

jen said:

I throw away (well recycle) every card AND photo I get. Not because I'm a grinch, but because I live in a very small house. I'm all for sending an email & saving a tree (and money). I really think it's the thought that counts. Well wishes are well wishes, electronic or not.

December 22, 2008 8:43 PM
 

Brett Singer said:

I was mostly convinced that email holiday cards weren't tacky by the time I finished writing this post but you've all convinced me more. I admit I still like the paper cards but I also still read the newspaper every day.

December 22, 2008 9:40 PM
 

MomofBeans said:

I think I'm switching to e-cards next year. Between working and parenting, getting out those cards was a huge effort this year. And the stamps!  We spent a small fortune in stamps alone.

December 23, 2008 7:28 AM
 

Neel said:

    I try to take a meaningful picture, and to iclude a short story when I put a holiday greeting together.  I'm not a professional at doing those things, but while I make the effort, my thoughts are on the ones who will receive my homemade e-card.  To me, it has a feeling I can't send with a convenient trip to Hallmark.

    If they're not meaningful to the ones I send them to, then I guess I'm not meaningful either.

December 24, 2008 9:32 AM

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Brett Singer is a writer and father living in Manhattan with his wonderful wife and two terrific sons (referred to here as Thing 1 and Thing 2). He writes about music for the Boston Phoenix, parenting for Babble and daddytips.com, and other topics for anyone else who will have him.

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