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Program Helps Incarcerated Dads Keep In Touch

Posted by Amy Kuras

Imagine that you’ve done some stupid stuff, made some mistakes, and now are incarcerated for your crimes. But instead of being sent to the state pen that’s in your actual state, you’re shipped 3000 miles away.

That’s the situation facing prisoners at the Saguaro Correctional Facility in Eloy, Arizona. They are all from Hawaii, which has contracted out some of its correctional functions to a private company called Corrections Corporation of America. CCA runs several facilities in and near Eloy.

Many of these men have children, and their only option to keep in touch -- and even make sure they are remembered by their kids – has been expensive phone calls home and monthly 15-minute videoconference calls.

But thanks to a federal grant, inmates can now participate in the “Fathers Bridging the Miles” program. Fathers can choose two books per month for each of their children, and read the books themselves aloud on CD. Kids can pop in the CD and read along with their father whenever they want to.

Fathers participating also are required to take a yearlong parenting class and work with a social worker at the prison. If they fulfill the requirements, they get an additional half-hour video visit each quarter.

Men with a history of domestic abuse or crimes against children are barred from participating.

Although it must be difficult for these men to be so far away from their families and never get visitors, they did the crime. Imagine how hard it must be for their innocent kids. And if anything is going to set these guys on the straight and narrow, being a better example to their children is probably it.



 


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Comments

 

Lucy said:

There's also a great Reading Rainbow episode called Visiting Day about these kids that go visit their dads in prison.  I knew kids with fathers in prison and I always thought good riddance to the dads until I saw that show.  It shows the kids' point of view and how crucial it is for these families to remain in contact so when the dads are released, they already have a relationship with their kids and both sides seems to benefit from the connection.

November 27, 2008 11:05 AM
 

leahsmom said:

Many folks who are incarcerated - even if they end up in their state - end up far from families, sometimes too far for families (especially families who struggle with money) to visit.  And the way phone calls are handled is practically highway robbery - unregulated, the phone companies can charge whatever they feel like, and often families need to establish prepaid "accounts" with the prison in order to receive calls from a prisoner, in order to be charged a $30 connection fee per call plus $5/minute (not to mention purposely dropped calls by operators who sneer at the fact you're getting a call from an inmate).  I know of at least one woman who had to take a second job in order to afford calls with her husband, so their 10-year-old could hear from Daddy for an hour once a month. Most people aren't aware of this significant burden.

Studies show that children with an incarcerated parent do better both academically and psychologically when the parent can be involved - I'm always strongly in favor of anything to encourage that.

November 28, 2008 9:31 AM
 

Terese said:

Let's not forget that 1 in 10 American men spend some time locked up - that makes for a lot of affected children.

November 28, 2008 10:42 AM

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