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Girl Diagnoses Herself With Autism

Posted by JeanneSager

A little girl who has always had difficulty reading people's facial expressions and making friends has been diagnosed with autism. No surprise there. But this little girl is extra special. Rosie King diagnosed herself after reading a children's book about autism.

The British youngster had been given a copy of Little Rainman to help her make sense of her little brother, Lenny's disabilities. The six-year-old boy is almost completely non-verbal, and his difficulties in social situations are significantly more pronounced than his sister's. Their sister Daisy, at eight the middle child, suffers from Kabuki syndrome, a rare disorder that is characterized by - among other things - arched eyebrows similar to those favored by the Kabuki theater performers in ancient Japan. Most of the sufferers have myriad physical abnormalities plus mild to moderate intellectual difficulties.

Rosie's mom said her oldest was always a "little peculiar," but an otherwise "happy and healthy child." Her personality was so different from that of Lenny, who was diagnosed with autism at two, that her parents simply never thought of an autism diagnosis. When Rosie pointed out the child in the book was a lot like her, the Kings made an appointment with a a speech therapist, child psychologist and behavioral therapist. The diagnosis was Asperger's, a form of autism. 

Why do I love this story? Because Rosie sounds like the kind of kid any of us would love to have - smart, happy, healthy . . . and still willing to snuggle with mom and read a book. She's a prime example of why autism can't be painted with a broad brush. She's proof that developmental disabilities don't take away from a child's ability to love or be loved, and not every disability affects a child's brain. 

Image: Yorkshire Evening Post

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Comments

 

Em said:

This is a great, uplifting story.

However, you say it just goes to show that "autism can't be painted with a broad brush." However, your headline goes against that.

Asperger syndrome is an autism spectrum disorder, but it is not "autism." Calling Asperger's "autism" is like calling someone who is 10 pounds overweight "obese."

As someone who is married to someone with Asperger's, I am tired of seeing Asperger's called "autism." I think it paints a very inaccurate (and even offensive) view of this disorder. It is what makes it very, very difficult for my husband to be able to tell people (employers, friends, etc.) that he has Asperger's.

November 21, 2008 4:55 PM
 

Lynn said:

My husband was diagnosed with Asperger's at the age of 34, after years of struggling socially and dealing with the resulting depression.

While I agree with Em on some points, I don't feel that saying he's autistic or slightly autistic is bad, and explaining it as such gives the people around him some relief and context when they would otherwise think he's just being intentionally rude, obnoxious, insensitive, or overly technical.

We, along with his family and friends, were shocked but also relieved to finally make sense of why he "wasn't like everyone else". The fact that his condition may be mild compared to others doesn't diminish his daily struggles.

November 22, 2008 2:45 PM

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Jeanne Sager is a writer who lives in upstate New York with her husband, daughter, a dog and too many cats. She refuses to believe motherhood comes with pumpkin appliqued sweaters, and she';s not ready to apologize for having only one child. She writes about raising her kid in her own hometown and the mom stuff she's not embarrassed to own at her blog, Inside Out (http://jeannesager.blogspot.com), she's contributing editor of Grand Magazine, and she's a regular essayist here on Babble

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