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Is Online Cheating a Deal-Breaker?

Posted by Kelly Mills

second life lustFrom Britain comes the news that a couple who had an elaborate wedding on the virtual reality game "Second Life" are now getting divorced. So what tore this couple, who met in a chatroom, apart from each other? Well, Amy Taylor says she caught her real-life husband having virtual sex with a woman on the same game. Later she also reported she hired an online detective to track his virtual activities, though she knew he wasn't fooling around in this reality. "It may have started online, but it existed entirely in the real world and it hurts just as much now it is over," she said. Taylor is now in a new relationship with a man she met on "World of Warcraft". 

Now, for a couple who are so invested in their virtual lives, it makes sense Taylor would consider this a betrayal. But what about other couples? With virtual reality games becoming more elaborate and consuming, do activities online carry the same weight as those commited in the physical world? Perhaps some would draw the line at any kind of online flirtation, whether or not it was acted out with avatars, while others would consider this harmless fun as long as it never spills over into real life.

What do you think? What's cheating in the age of online worlds? Where would you draw the line? 

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Comments

 

Mike Adamick (Cry It Out!) said:

Avatar sex sounds kinky in a really horrible Dwight Shrute way. If I discovered my wife having sex on second life, I'd be annoyed over the pure nerd factor.

November 14, 2008 6:48 PM
 

Biggest Firesale said:

Thats how I caught my husband cheating on me. Thank God I just happened to check  his laptop one day and stumbled upon  his private emails to his mistress. Men!!

November 14, 2008 9:49 PM
 

Manjari said:

Mike, I thought of Dwight when I read this too.

November 14, 2008 9:59 PM
 

ShaLO said:

Definitely still cheating. And if I found out my husband was doing this I would cut his nose right off his face!

November 15, 2008 7:34 PM

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