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Strollerderby Playdate: Feminist Mormon Housewives

Posted by Shannon LC Cate

I have a confession.  I really like Mormons.  I can't help it, most of them are just really nice people.  And if you know the history of the LDS in the United States, you know they have been--historically--some of the most oppressed people in the country.  They were fired on by federal troops and basically chased West to territory no one else wanted.  They were polygamists (I know, I know, the LDS Church has a strong official stance against polygamy now) and were hated and condemned for their non-mainstream sexuality and "lifestyle choices."  This makes me feel they are queer kin, in an odd way.

I am not now and have never been a Mormon myself, but I have had several LDS friends over the years.  I always have a big disconnect when confronted by the face-to-face super niceness of Mormon individuals in spite of the institutional nastiness of the official church's positions on thing I care very much about.  Imagine my delight at finding the Feminist Mormon Housewives, a group blog by, well, a bunch of feminist Mormon housewives.  Lately, they've been on about the election, of course.  Most of them were big Obama supporters and they had some dissident things to say about the big LDS push to pass Proposition 8 in California.  (As does, Mormons for Marriage, an unrelated, but also terrific site.)

Even if the Mormons have been historically oppressed in the United States, they sure as heck are not the underdogs anymore.  In fact, they are a huge, monied, powerful organization with a strong top-down organizational style which yes indeed, contributed mightily to Proposition 8's passing.  It's good to know that there are women in this church who are not only thinking, but speaking for themselves in eloquent and intelligent ways rather than toeing a party--or religious--line.

 

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Comments

 

Laura said:

Not to say that "The Mormons deserved it" or anything like that, but... have you read anything about their early history? Joseph Smith and a lot of the early leaders were just as mean and nasty and violent as the people persecuting them. Jon Krakauer discusses a lot of their history in his book "Under the Banner of Heaven." To be quite honest, it's kind of scary.

But the Feminist Mormon Housewives sounds like a good thing.

November 11, 2008 2:49 PM
 

Shannon LC Cate said:

Oh, I know the Mormons have a checkered past, but I also think Krakauer is not objective.  And there are self-critical Mormons who fully acknowledge the nastier parts of the history.  My point here is that individuals are not the organization.

November 11, 2008 3:56 PM
 

Laura said:

Agreed on all points.

November 11, 2008 4:07 PM
 

TolaniLucia said:

I know that this is not about Jello but the picture is so pretty.

November 11, 2008 4:38 PM
 

fMhLisa said:

Thanks for the plug!  I'll second the notion that Krakauer is highly problematic.  There are some very scholarly and honest bios of Joe Smith (none from the church itself sadly).  I'd recommend No Man Knows My History by Fawn Brodie (she was excommunicated for this book) and Rough Stone Rolling by Richard Bushman (he was not, but he tread the tight rope more carefully, and probably benefited from the negative PR the church got after Brodie's excommunication)

And the Jello is very pretty.  

November 11, 2008 10:31 PM
 

Natasha said:

I am not sure if this rainbow jello image is purposeful, but it's an inside Mormon joke that we make odd versions of Jello.  So the queer-rainbow jello is a great merging of the two.  

And as a Mormon feminist, I can say that many Mormons were extremely uncomfortable about the gay marriage push.   I suppose the majority of Mormons in CA and AZ and FL supported the gay marriage ban, but a substantial minority of us did not.   Some of us were quite vocal, and put into really awkward situations because of that [not a complaint, just an observation]. I have been Mormon all of my life, and I was truly amazed and appalled at this political push.

And, yes Krakauer is problematic.  Bushman is a better [and much more scholarly and serious] source for the dirt on mormon history.

peace, all

November 12, 2008 4:54 PM
 

Shannon LC Cate said:

On the jello mold:

That's exactly what I was going for, Natasha.  I'm glad to know I've got the inside joke down so well!

November 12, 2008 5:02 PM
 

Natasha said:

I should also add:

Shannon, thanks for a kind post.  It's been an emotional political season for me--I've dodged nasty words on both sides of this debate.  It's wonderful to see someone who has a legitimate reason to be frustrated/furious with Mormons recognize the decency of some Mormon people.  Thanks for not adding hate onto hate.  

November 12, 2008 9:56 PM

About Shannon LC Cate

Shannon LC Cate, PhD is a lesbian housewife and work-from-home mother of two girls via domestic, open, transracial adoption. They are both under five and already too brilliant and beautiful for their own good. Shannon lives, writes and assembles tricycles in Chicago, Illinois.

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