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What Do You Do When Your Kid is an Extreme Partisan?

Posted by Kelly Mills

obama treatThis has been the most emotionally charged election I can remember since, well, ever, and it makes sense that the kids would pick up on that. But Slate's Emily Bazelon asks, what do you do when your children's political allegiances are extreme? She covers a Halloween experiment in which kids chose candy from either side of a porch: The Obama side--marked with a large sign and life-size cutout--and the McCain side, with corresponding signage and cutout. The blue neighborhood kids gave Obama 78 percent of the vote.

But when offered two pieces of candy at the Obama side versus four at the McCain side, support for Obama only dropped by ten percent. The kids were pretty fixed in their political ways, even though their vote obviously didn't "count" (hmm, like the electoral college.)  And Bazelon notes that her sweet kids threw around the word "traitor" to candy defectors.  And, she observes, with kids who are reared on lots of lessons in tolerance, it may be that McCain is one of the few people they can clearly think of as a bad guy.

It makes me just slightly uncomfortable to see children actively campaigning, if only because you know that until a certain age, the opinions they express are not likely their own. Then again, isn't it our job to pass on our values, political or otherwise? And I've seen this "death and destruction to candidate so-and-so" in my area too, from young children who just seem to want to be able to freely bash a clear villain. What about your kids? Does it bother you?

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Comments

 

leahsmom said:

What does bother me is the idea of "clear villain." I may disagree with Senator McCain, and believe he's really lowered his standards in this campaign season. I may believe he's out of touch and his ideas will lead to America being worse off.

But he's a human being, a person.  He served our country, much to his own personal detriment, in war; he's served it long in peace. He is doing what he thinks is right. I disagree with him, I dislike his tactics. But he's not a "clear villain." There are very few "clear villains." I respect him as a fellow human and will not demonize him for that reason - and I hope to raise my children to see things the same way. No one is ever completely right or completely wrong.

November 4, 2008 11:56 AM
 

Heather S. said:

I would like to see the results categorized by age of the children. I suspect that younger children were more likely to take candy from the other side, while older children were more likely to remain loyal. If this were true, then I don't really see a problem here. If this were true, then I think it's inspiring to see young people caring and feeling passionate. After all, their futures are at stake.

November 4, 2008 12:06 PM
 

Kaz said:

Poor Nader kids...

November 4, 2008 12:35 PM
 

Mike Adamick (Cry It Out!) said:

This is such a great experiment. And while I snorted out loud at Kaz's comment, I am in total agreement with leahsmom -- except for the fact that I'm always right, of course.

November 4, 2008 2:00 PM
 

Bunny said:

I think the vehemence with which the kids express their partisanship has more to do with a kid's tendency to black-and-white-either-or thinking and go-team thinking than with any understanding of politics. This election has got people so riled up, and the political dialogue the kids are overhearing is so overheated and partisan, that it's no wonder that kids are getting a bit extreme about it.

I remember being in about fourth grade during the Bush/Dukakis election, and my entire family being very pro-Dukakis, and my dad took me to a rally and held me up so I could see Dukakis, and my sister and I named a Bush on our walk home "George Bush" in order to make fun of him. I couldn't tell you a think about the politics involved; we were just rooting for the same team as our folks. And it was fun!

Long story short, I think it's pretty harmless and rather cute. Pro-Obama kids will (hopefully) have some great memories about this campaign. And I'm particularly excited for all the kids who aren't white. Just thinking about what this election means for them and their future makes me a bit teary-eyed.

November 4, 2008 2:29 PM
 

leahsmom said:

Well, of course, Mike - but you're the ONLY exception to that rule!

November 4, 2008 3:33 PM

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