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Opposing Same-Sex Fostercare and Adoption: It's Not Just for John McCain Anymore

Posted by Shannon LC Cate

John McCain told the New York Times that children were better off in orphanages than in the homes of loving same-sex parents.  It seems some folks in Arkansas agree.

An Arkansas ballot initiative being pushed by conservative groups would leave more children waiting for families longer by banning adoption and foster parenting by unmarried couples.  By "unmarried" everyone on both sides of the ballot initiative means "same-sex."  Having already banned gay marriage (pointless, since gays could never marry in Arkansas anyway) down-ballot in the last presidential election, the radical right-wing agenda now takes aim at children in need of families.  According to NPR, foster families are on the decline in the state, and banning same-sex couples from joining their ranks (or remaining in them, as the case may be) will only hurt children in need of loving care from trustworthy adults.

California's Proposition 8 is getting lots of press these final days before the election, but if you're in Arkansas, educate yourself about the Arkansas Adoption Ban before heading to the polls.


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Comments

 

justice said:

this is ridiculous.  my son is adopted from foster care and i have many same sex couple friends that have adopted from foster care that are wonderful parents.  there is no research to prove that the children would turn out differently than any other adopted child from being raised with two moms or two dads.  i hope people realize the damage that children face languishing in foster care their whole lives.  they are certainly much better off experiencing a loving home, the partner choice of the parents should not matter.  

October 26, 2008 10:13 PM
 

nannypoo said:

It is a religious belief. Christians believe that marriage is between a man and a woman, children are entitled to be born or adopted into a marriage where man and woman exist.  Don't take it up with McCain or the people of Arkansas, take it up with God.

October 26, 2008 10:20 PM
 

Shannon LC Cate said:

nannypoo, "Christians" do not necessarily believe those things.  You may. Your pastor may.  Every single member of your church may.  But there is nothing "Christian" about it.  Perhaps your experience of Christianity is incredibly small and limited and you don't realize this, but Christians have a wide range of beliefs.  I am a lesbian, adoptive mother and a Christian, raising my daughters as Christians and I am really tired of people with your viewpoint claiming it's the "Christian" viewpoint.  That is simply not accurate.

October 26, 2008 11:32 PM
 

Lori said:

there we go, hiding HATE behind religion again.........

October 27, 2008 12:46 AM
 

Della said:

Has McCain ever actually MET kids with same-sex parents? How about kids raised in orphanages? So how come he's magically able to make this judgment?

October 27, 2008 12:53 AM
 

kd said:

nannypoo... I took your suggestion and did take it up with god... and she is majorly ticked off!

She said to let everyone know that she strongly prefers that kids are raised in loving homes by nurturing caregivers who want to raise them.

October 27, 2008 7:09 AM
 

Manjari said:

This makes me so sick and angry. I honestly thing the world would be a better place without right wing bigots and misguided religious idiots.

October 27, 2008 9:04 AM
 

Jessica said:

"9,000 children are in the Arkansas foster care system - many of them are hoping to be permanently adopted by loving parents. Over 45,000 unmarried-partner households live in Arkansas (including both same-sex and different-sex couples) - some of them would make great foster or adoptive parents. The ballot initiative would lock children into the temporary, sometimes overcrowded foster system, and lock them out of potentially better situations, for no reason except bias against unmarried people.

Children and parents deserve a better chance! Arkansas voters must say no to the Arkansas' Anti-Adoption Act!"

Alternatives to Marriage, 501c3

www.unmarried.org

October 27, 2008 9:40 AM
 

God said:

I wish people would stop putting words in my mouth. I'm over it. As per my discussion with KD, I'm all for loving families, whether they be same-sex, multiracial,or what have you. You're really bumming me out with all this hate-speak. I may have to smite you.

October 27, 2008 11:06 AM
 

anon said:

Sometimes "unmarried couples" just means unmarried couples, and it does seem like a good idea to have some criteria for relationship stability before letting people take care of a kid (who has probably seen enough instability). None of the news stories I can find (all of them seemingly pro-gay rights) give any examples of stable gay couples in Arkansas who have been excluded from the fosterage system. So it seems that the dire consequences for both foster kids and gay rights are hypothetical at this point.

October 27, 2008 2:53 PM
 

camamma said:

McCain is a dad by birth and adoption. Seems the codger should have a little bit more perspective on the matter given life experience. But again, I am not surprised, just saddened that he and his ilk perpetuate this hate and injustice.

October 28, 2008 12:39 AM

About Shannon LC Cate

Shannon LC Cate, PhD is a lesbian housewife and work-from-home mother of two girls via domestic, open, transracial adoption. They are both under five and already too brilliant and beautiful for their own good. Shannon lives, writes and assembles tricycles in Chicago, Illinois.

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