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Kids Won't Go to School? You're Going to Jail

Posted by JeanneSager

It's 10 a.m., do you know where your children are? If you live in the Sacramento, Calif. area, you'd better hope they're in school - or you'll be using a jail phone to call your boss.

The Sacramento District Attorney's Office celebrated its 13th Annual Truancy Sweep this week, rounding up 65 parents of habitual truants. Their kids don't go to school, so they're going to jail. Remember, these are habitual offenders - it's not a case of rounding up the parents after a staged senior skip day.

Although I've always been in favor of altering the school day schedule to make it easier on working parents (how many of you can leave work at 2:15 so you can come home to keep an eye on your kids?), I can't say I feel bad for any of these parents. Kids belong in school (or in a homeschooled environment). If they're not there, who is watching over them in the morning? Who is feeding them breakfast and checking their homework? And if they're not learning somewhere, from someone, how are they prepared for the day when Mom and Dad won't be there to take the fall for their problems?

Yes, the kids need to be held accountable. But doesn't accountability start at home?

Image: Truancy Prevention Association

Source: The Sacramento Bee

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Comments

 

paanta said:

Yay!  Nothing helps troubled kids like locking up their parents!

October 2, 2008 3:17 PM
 

leahsmom said:

I also agree that kids should be in school - and that, for some kids, school might be a place to get a meal they otherwise couldn't have, to take a nap, to be out of the cold - if not to learn.  Some of the children in our worst public schools don't have even that, but many in our bad but not worst schools might. But I also have some compassion for parents in poverty, who might not be able to afford (truly) clothes, shoes, and supplies to send a child to school - and a child who might not want to go out of shame, just to take a very limited, easy to empathize with example. Or for parents who have a strong distrust of institutional systems which have let them down and often punished them without compassion and without thought, for most of their lives.  Parents in poverty may also not really see that education has a value - it very well might not have had one, in their own lives.   Or, to move away from some privileged romanticization of the troubles of those in poverty - some parents might feel their children are safer, even possibly at home unsupervised, than they would be in some of our public schools. And in some cases, I might even agree.  

Accountability is important.  But I despair at the way we in America tell the poor and the struggling - hey, you're on your own, be ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR FAILURE, from a young age - when we deprive them of every chance to make a good start that the comfortable (and often, the white) have without thinking about it. I think the situation is far more complex than lazy parents not caring about kids.

October 3, 2008 9:28 AM

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Jeanne Sager is a writer who lives in upstate New York with her husband, daughter, a dog and too many cats. She refuses to believe motherhood comes with pumpkin appliqued sweaters, and she';s not ready to apologize for having only one child. She writes about raising her kid in her own hometown and the mom stuff she's not embarrassed to own at her blog, Inside Out (http://jeannesager.blogspot.com), she's contributing editor of Grand Magazine, and she's a regular essayist here on Babble

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