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Two Moms is Not Enough

Posted by Shannon LC Cate

Quick! How many children's pop-culture products can you think of that features same-sex parents? Two? Four? Six?

I can count maybe a dozen, mostly books.  Of those, I like maybe two or three.  We have And Tango Makes Three and like it.  We have a couple of other books that quietly portray same-sex parents without it being the central issue, but when it comes to kids' culture that reflects the family configuration our kids know first-hand, our options are woefully limited.

Newish to the scene in this small pool of options is Buddy G: My Two Moms and Me a cartoon featuring a kid with two moms as the title declares in no uncertain terms.  The first thing I thought when I looked at the trailer was "that kid is more annoying than Caillou!"  Further investigation led me to discover that this was just what the show's creators had in mind.  They thought it would be neat if Caillou had two moms and set out to make it so.

I think it would be neat if Caillou was hit by a flaming meteor, but that's a post for another day.  To get to the cringeworthy point, I'm not a Buddy G fan.

I realize that our family is very much a minority, what with two white moms and two African American daughters, and I don't expect to find hundreds of choices at the library that reflect that minority.  But it would be nice if there were more to choose from if only because in any category of cultural production, 90% is dross.  In such a small pool of options, we're left with very little if we're picky enough to aim for the best stuff.  Maybe other folks can handle bad culture for children or adults, but I have studied great literature for too long.  I am an absolute snob about it.  I only want the good stuff for my family.

Sadly, when it comes to cartoons featuring two moms, it's Buddy G or nothing.  Commendable as the idea behind the project is, and disloyal as I feel for saying so, at this point, we choose nothing.


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Comments

 

Mamallama said:

I'm SO glad that someone else sees Caillou for the whiny little brat that he is.  And I think that the more exposure to families of all types is what will eventually get the US to accept this as a norm.  Then again, I'm from San Francisco so maybe I'm optimistic.

September 29, 2008 8:18 PM
 

Marcy said:

Two Moms is Just Right

There is an emerging market in entertainment- shows aimed at gay and lesbian families and their allies.  A new cartoon on the scene Buddy, G My Two Moms and Me has this focus and does it well.  

Buddy G, My Two Moms and Me is a cartoon about a little boy who has all sorts of adventures, has a computer as a friend/mentor, and just so happens to have two moms.  The story focuses on Buddy G and his hand held computer Socrates.  Socrates helps Buddy G to learn right from wrong and even teaches him a little something about science.

Buddy G has two moms, Mom and Mommy, but they are not the central part of the cartoon.  The fact that he has two moms is just that, a simple, normal fact.  The producers set out to normalize a same sex headed family- and they do a great job.  Although Buddy G may not be representative of every type of family with two moms, at least there is now something on the market that is representative of some part of our community; thanks to Buddy G our children may feel a little less alone.

As an early childhood expert, Buddy G, My Two Moms and Me meet all of my criteria for high quality children’s entertainment.  I love that my son can watch this cartoon and see that he is not the only young boy who has two moms.  Many of his friends who have watched Buddy G at our house love the cartoon and have often exclaimed, “Wow!  Buddy G has two moms just like you!”  Buddy G is not annoying to them at all.  

Watching Buddy G, My Two Moms and Me was a pleasure for me and for my son.  He has watched it multiple times, laughing throughout, and keeps asking to watch more.  Rumor has it, there are more episodes to come and we are anxiously awaiting them.

September 30, 2008 9:54 PM
 

Shannon LC Cate said:

To each her own.  Personally, I didn't like it.  May there soon be much more so we can all pick something we like.

September 30, 2008 9:59 PM
 

beeker said:

I like Calliou.

October 1, 2008 12:43 PM

About Shannon LC Cate

Shannon LC Cate, PhD is a lesbian housewife and work-from-home mother of two girls via domestic, open, transracial adoption. They are both under five and already too brilliant and beautiful for their own good. Shannon lives, writes and assembles tricycles in Chicago, Illinois.

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