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Teen and Tween Legally Abandoned Under New Law

Posted by Madeline Holler

It is hard to argue with a law that allows parents to abandon their babies safely at a hospital, firehouse, etc., no questions asked. Especially considering the alternatives.

But when Nebraska lawmakers passed a bill that basically didn't limit the age -- tweens and teens were allowed, too -- I have to admit: I guffawed. Nobody's going to "anonymously" drop off children old enough to recite their phone numbers and point the direction home!

But get this: a couple of people did. Two boys -- 15 and 11! -- were left at Nebraska hospitals this past weekend. They are the first to be legally abandoned under the state's new law.

The teenager was dropped off by his 44-year-old aunt (his legal guardian). She said he has behavioral problems that she could no longer manage. The 11-year-old was dropped off by his mother, who said she believed she could no longer care for him. Authorities say neither showed signs of abuse or neglect.

What do you think? Heartbreaking? Outrageous? Or symptoms of a bigger problem. I mean, why didn't these women have more support for raising kids with behavioral problems? Where is the assistance for these types of special needs? Or is there plenty of assistance and these women just didn't care enough?

 

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Photo: bbc.co.uk


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Comments

 

diera said:

My opinion is: if anyone is having enough problems with their child to actually go through with dropping off the child at the hospital with the intent never to see them again, they should probably be allowed to do it.  The other option is to leave the kid with an adult who really, truly doesn't want them.  As the news shows every day, parents can do terrible things to children if they really, truly don't want them or can't handle them and feel that they have no way out.

September 16, 2008 4:13 PM
 

Bunny said:

I do agree that these people shouldn't keep these kids if they're that desperate to get rid of them (this is a recipe for abuse or even murder), but my heart breaks for those poor children. What could possibly be crueler?

September 16, 2008 4:40 PM
 

KM said:

This story breaks my heart, especially knowing how hard it is to find adoptive homes for older children, let alone older boys... These behavior problems are only going to be aggrivated by the fact that they have now been abandoned.  But at least these children now have a chance (hopefully) to find a home where they are loved (instead of living in one where their caregivers felt they couldn't handle them.) Sad.

September 16, 2008 4:58 PM
 

Manjari said:

That is so very sad.

September 16, 2008 9:36 PM

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