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The Biggest Driving Mistakes Moms Make

Posted by Amy Kuras

As responsible parents, we'd never drive drunk, tailgate out of road rage, try to apply makeup or read while driving, right?
But turns out some very common behaviors are just as dangerous. According to this story from MSNBC, a recent University of Utah study found that subjects using cell phones in a driving simulation had three accidents, while those who were drunk had none (although I take major issue with the story for this: "Tempting as it may be to use free minutes to schedule a playdate…." Sure. Because everything we do as mothers has to be about our children. It's not like we have jobs or friends or volunteer activities we might need  to check in with, no, we're just shopping, cooking, cleaning, playdate-scheduling machines.).

Other dangerous behaviors are eating behind the wheel, drowsy driving, and tending to our kids while in the car (passing out snacks and handing over sippy cups, for example). It all comes down to driver distraction. Distractions of just three seconds cause fully 80 percent of accidents.

I know so far, I've been lucky – the multiple times I've reached or glanced back to tend to  my kids while driving have resulted in other drivers not hitting me, (but probably wishing they could because I'm driving like an idiot). I must say, my cell phone's been broken for about a month now and while I miss the convenience of catching up on calls while I am out and about, I'm glad I have had a chance to break the habit.


 


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Comments

 

Maeby said:

= / i know its stupid but i eat behind the wheel all the time. I just tell myself i'm a great driver, but its not safe at all. From now on i vow never to eat behind the wheel, ESPECIALLY if there are kids around (which is always). Done.

July 29, 2008 6:15 PM
 

Dana said:

I hate the idiots with their cell phones, mothers, fathers, kids, I don't care who it is or what they are talking about...hang it up!  

Mythbusters did a great experiment where they did a driving course while talking on a cell phone and then again when they were drunk, and they breezed through it while intoxicated but managed to run over all sorts of cones when they were on the phone.

What exactly is so important that it can't wait?  It's just not worth the risk of seriously injuring (or worse) yourself, your family, or someone else just so you can chat away and save yourself 5 minutes...how about saving a life instead?

July 29, 2008 8:13 PM
 

Larissa said:

I dunno Dana... when I lived in the Washington, DC area, I used that horrible commuting, traffic-congestion time to get a lot of important calls done (rarely can I work while the kids are strapped down & listening to XM kids radio...).  With my bluetooth (both hands on the wheel & stick shift!), I was able to conduct conversations while driving regularly.  maybe it was the manual transmission - it had trained my brain to remain engaged while driving.  I got a lot of work done during those 20-30 minute drives.

July 29, 2008 10:35 PM
 

Maureen said:

I rarely use a cell phone and never in the car unless I'm parked -- my phone is old and can't be voice activated.  However, I am so guilty of tending to my kids while driving.  I hand back snacks or grab a toy from the floor and throw it back to them.  My thought was always that their screaming would distract me more than handing them a toy.  But maybe not....

July 29, 2008 11:34 PM
 

leahsmom said:

Larissa - how do you know that it wasn't just luck that you were able to drive safely? I think the point of many of these experiements where they're pitting drunknness against distraction, is that people aren't able to focus their full attention on the road while they're talking on the phone - even if their hands and eyes can remain on the road.  I have found myself distracted on business calls before, not really seeing what's in front of me because I am thinking - I bet I'm not completely alone there.  I think the point is that there is no way to make talking on the phone while driving as safe as simply driving, bluetooth or not.

July 30, 2008 9:13 AM
 

Liane said:

Everyone thinks about other things while they're driving -- unless you can completely shut off your mind, you're probably distracted to some degree. So I don't buy the argument that hands-free is just as bad as a cell.

July 30, 2008 11:43 AM

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