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Baby abandoned in Queens, husband had ordered Mom to have abortion

Posted by Brett Singer

ZhengOn May 11, a 3-day-old baby girl was found abandoned on the stoop of a building in Flushing, Queens, along with a bag full of diapers and formula.

A day later, police found the mother, a 31-year-old named Hua Zheng, by using information on the hospital bracelet the baby still wore. (Oops.) They also had surveillance video footage of her leaving the hospital with the baby – on Mother's Day.

Zheng is married, and her husband reportedly told her to get an abortion because they couldn't afford to have a child. Doctors told Zheng she was too far along to have the procedure, so she, "lied to her husband and hid her pregnancy." Presumably Zheng told him she had gotten an abortion, then had the baby and left her outside. How she would be able to hide all of this, I don't know.

There are slightly conflicting reports depending on which source you read. The Daily News says that Zheng and her husband have a 2-year-old boy who had been sent to live in China because they couldn't afford to raise him here. CBS News said that the stoop was chosen at random. But Newsday tells us that Kristina Yu, the woman who found the baby on her doorstep, was the babysitter for Zheng's son. It's possible that she used to babysit the son, and then he went to live in China. In the CBS story, Yu said that she couldn't determine the baby's ethnicity: "It looked like it could be an Asian baby. It looked like it could be a mix. I'm not sure."

Once again, as in the "taxi baby" case, the Safe Haven law rears its head. Since Zheng left the baby on a stoop, she will be charged with a crime. If she had brought the girl to the hospital, she would have been able to walk away, no questions asked.

image: amny.com


Comments

 

Mike Adamick (Cry It Out!) said:

I'm so glad you mentioned the safe haven law. It needs to be repeated and repeated over and over again.

May 14, 2008 11:22 AM
 

Cassie said:

Happens every day all over China.  They could not keep the child because they had not asked permission to have a second child.  They are still Chinese citizens and cannot have more than one child unless they beong to a specific ethnic group or live in the rural countryside.  My guess is they are urbanites and the one son was all they could have by law.  They could not afford to keep the girl because the fine to keep her is usually 1-2 years wages of the entire family.  It is common in China to send a small child to live with relatives, usually grandparents, when they are babies so the parents can work, not just because they could not afford to keep him.  Obviously the mother loved this little girl though. She left her to be found by a friends and even provided supplies.  I hope she is not deported for this or even jailed.  She did the best she could and should be offered asylum here in the US.  When she returns to China she will be fined and probably sterilized or her husband given a forcible vasectomy for this.  They dont fool around about this stuff. I had Chinese friends forced to have an abortion while living here for the same reasons.  

May 14, 2008 2:06 PM

About Brett Singer

Brett Singer is a writer and father living in Manhattan with his wonderful wife and two terrific sons (referred to here as Thing 1 and Thing 2). He writes about music for the Boston Phoenix, sports for Go2.com (a text messaging company) and other topics for anyone else who will have him.

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