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They Say: Your Stuff Does't Make You Happy

Posted by Madeline Holler

Bad news for "retail therapy" seekers everywhere: more stuff won't make you happy. At least, not for very long.

This feels like old news, but it's probably worth repeating the results of a new study anyway. Especially since we're not getting richer, food and gas cost more and we're likely in  -- or entering into -- a recession.

Here's the deal: we apparently get used to our stuff rather quickly and it stops making us happy. Although, the same study found that stuff CAN make you happy, it's just up to you to keep appreciating it.

"Simply having a bunch of things is not the key to happiness," [one researcher] says in a statement. "Our data show that you also need to appreciate those things you have. It's also important to keep your desire for things you don't own in check."

Turns out, wanting what you have and having what you want are completely separate things, both of which affect our psychologies. 

What do you think? Does shopping boost your mood? Does it last? What do you want that you're just sure is going to make you happy? What do you have that no longer makes you happy? 

 

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Comments

 

Celina said:

  I am not sure if it was turning 40, or if it was just that we actually filled all of our needs, but shopping is just not the same any more. I've always been a garage sale shopper, so it wasn't like I was paying a lot of money for my stuff. I am much more selective then I used to be and I am doing more social type things.

  I have spent the past year slowly getting rid of stuff I realize I don't want any more. There are less big plastic toys, now that the kids are older. The ones I am tripping over no longer make me happy.

  I've noticed that if I buy tools, they make me happy for a long time. The Big Kitchen Aid was a great buy, it has made me happy for 15 years.

  On the whole, I'd say that we spend most of our money on food. And it does really make me happy.

May 4, 2008 10:18 AM
 

LogicalMama said:

The Dalai Lama says that no amount of material wealth will make happy soul. It has to come from within, not from outside objects.

May 4, 2008 2:55 PM

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