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Babble Talk: Boozin' With the Kids

Posted by Jen Chaney

One essay earlier this week got people fired up about nursing in a moving vehicle. Now comes another hot-button topic: Giving alcohol to children.

In an installment of Bad Parent, Gretchen Roberts confesses that she allows her daughters, one of whom is 5, to take the occasional tiny taste of wine. As someone who writes about food and wine, Gretchen sees her pinots and zinfandels as a vital part of life, something to share at the table with the whole family. She also rightly points out that Europeans have a similar attitude toward imbibing -- many of them embrace it in moderation and, in many cases, are not afraid to expose their children to it.

Personally, I am not sure I'd be totally comfortable giving my kids a sip of wine at such a young age. I guess it's the "bourgeois" American in me, but -- while I respect Gretchen's take on the issue -- I would probably feel a little guilty the minute after I helped them take that first sip. On the other hand, I do think that parents who are wine drinkers should not avoid having a glass or two with dinner. Keeping alcohol a "secret" can sometimes breed an unhealthy interest in the stuff, which can make some teens and even preteens start sneaking it on the sly.

As this essay suggests, showing young people that it's possible to enjoy a nice cabernet without overindulging can be a positive thing. I'm just not sure that kids necessarily need a taste to learn that lesson.

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Comments

 

Treespeed said:

All things in moderation, eh? I hardly see the problem of giving a child a taste of wine or beer, though I would probably draw the line at hard liqour. Not surprisingly my little Copper really dug her sip of two buck chuck and would have drunk the rest of the glass if I'd let her.

May 2, 2008 12:51 PM
 

LogicalMama said:

I'd have no problem letting my little guy taste it, but I don't like wine or beer so I don't drink it. When we visit the relatives, if he wants to taste it, he's welcome to it but something tells me he's not going to want to.... and even if he tries it, I don't think he'll like it!

I too, believe we are a bit uptight about it here in America. Europe's more casual attitude has lead to less alcoholism and abuse.

May 2, 2008 2:30 PM
 

Doppelganger said:

I've noticed most parents seem to fall into one of two camps:

1. People who are cool with sips or small servings of booze on occasion, but would never let their kids near soft drinks.

2. People who let their kids swill pop but are aghast at the idea of the hard stuff.

Funny, huh?

May 2, 2008 8:00 PM

About Jen Chaney

Jen Chaney is the movies editor and a DVD columnist for washingtonpost.com. Her byline has appeared in The Washington Post, People magazine, USA Today and the Utne Reader as well as various other newspapers around the country. She is the mother of a one-year-old boy, who has not yet learned the word Xanadu. But he will. Trust us, he will.

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