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Posted by Brett Singer

No Cake For You!Despite what Adrienne pointed out about chubby kids having fewer cavities, a school principal in New Zealand isn't taking any chances.

Megan Bowden of the Oteha Valley primary school has issued a decree: no more cake. With a large number of kids having birthdays in September and October, every day was a birthday cake day, and that's just too damn much cake!  The New Zealand Ministry of Education (ooo, sounds ominous, doesn't it?) has been trying to reduce the amount of sugary snacks being served at school, but they also issued a statement that, "schools did not need to monitor food brought in from outside." So they're probably cool with the cake.

As much as the principal's policy seems draconian, I have to admit that a part of me agrees with her. I'm far from a health nut, and Kelly is right when she tears into the London lunatic who criticized a heavyset beauty queen. But it does sometimes feel like kids are given a tremendous amount of junky food during the school day. I know of two elementary schools that have "sundaes on Friday" once a month at lunch, and I've seen lunch menus that offer waffles and bacon, with chocolate éclairs for dessert. According to the article, parents began to think that bringing a cake for the child's birthday was a school rule. Then there's the issue of allergies, which means checking the cake for nuts or another offending substance, and whoever brings in the cake might be expected to provide an alternative for any child who can't partake of the treat. Maybe it's not completely unreasonable to say hey, have your cake at home.


Comments

 

AllisonWonder said:

Or maybe they could have a shared birthday party once a month?

April 7, 2008 2:35 PM
 

hl4hand said:

When I was in elementary school 20+ years ago there was a strict "no birthday party" rule.  It was in the handbook given out at the first of the school year.  The way it was worded was something along the lines of each class can only have two parties a year.  If a birthday is celebrated it is a party for the class and the class gives up a party that year.  No parent would EVER want to be the mom or dad that took away the end of the year party, so there was never cake brought in for birthdays.  Maybe we would sing "Happy Birthday" or the birthday person would be line leader or have some other very important to a third grader task.  This way no one had to worry about allergies.  It also prevented some of the kids whose parents could not afford or did not have the time to bring in the cake from feeling left out.  My child is no where near this issue yet (he's one) but I have no plans on bringing in cake and ice cream to school right now.

April 7, 2008 4:29 PM
 

km said:

My older son has an August b-day, so the school-party hasn't come up with him.  My 3 y/o (Sept. b-day) is starting pre-school next year, and I must say I was totally bummed to find out there is a ban on birthday parties.  I love making cupcakes.  I usually end up making them for adults, but I was so looking forward to making fun kid-themed cupcakes for school.  (Yeah, I know I could make them for our home b-day party, but honestly, making a cake is a little easier when I have the rest of the party stuff to deal with.)

April 8, 2008 11:12 AM
 

Kate said:

Even though this rule makes perfect sense, I'm so glad that we didn't have one like it at my school. My mom made cupcakes in ice cream cones, frosted with pink and covered in sprinkles every year for my birthday. I was the only kid with "ice cream" cupcakes, and it is still one of my fondest childhood memories.

April 8, 2008 12:54 PM
 

g-wing said:

I agree with the no birthday cake at school rule. And for that matter, no birthday cake at work either please!

April 9, 2008 7:06 AM

About Brett Singer

Brett Singer is a writer and father living in Manhattan with his wonderful wife and two terrific sons (referred to here as Thing 1 and Thing 2). He writes about music for the Boston Phoenix, sports for Go2.com (a text messaging company) and other topics for anyone else who will have him.

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