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Should an "Overweight" Beauty Pageant Contestant Be a Role Model for Young Girls?

Posted by Kelly Mills

chloeMonica Grenfell is horrified. Why? Well, see, this year's Miss England contest has a fairly unique finalist: Chloe Marshall, a size 16 (about a size 14 in U.S. sizes.) Seventeen-year-old Marshall has been quite outspoken about wanting to be "an ambassador for curves" and demonstrate to young girls that it isn't necessary to be a size zero. She says she eats healthy food and exercises regularly. Grenfell, however, is a dietician and she hopes Chloe doesn't win. "It would send an appalling--and very dangerous--message to other young women that it's OK to be fat." She adds that Chloe is a terrible role model and says charmingly, "Who on earth does she think she's kidding? What she's demonstrating isn't bravery but a shocking lack of self-control. Instead of flaunting her figure, Chloe ought to own up to the truth. She is fat and she got that way by over-eating." Nice.

Grenfell makes the point that we don't have an anorexia epidemic, we have an obesity epidemic, and that the last thing girls need to hear is that it's okay to be overweight because it puts you at risk for health problems like Type 2 diabetes and heart attacks. Mmm hmm. Well, we could debate that one all day, but there is certainly no consensus among researchers that obesity itself is the cause of the problems.  In other words, the real issue is poor eating habits and a lack of physical activity, not the weight itself. And we certainly have a plethora of extremely thin role models for girls right now, role models whose bodies are not a realistic goal for many of the most active, healthy-eating girls in the world. 

But beyond that, do girls really need the message that a diversity of shapes and sizes are lovely? You've probably already guessed what I think about that. Hell yes. And while we may not have an anorexia "epidemic" (curse that word) the extremely adverse health effects of eating disorders are well-documented. And by the way, most eating disorder stats only deal with the most obvious examples, while plenty of researchers are discovering that even young girls are using extreme measures to try and get thin, often unsuccessfully, with lord knows what long-term health consequences. I guess that's why I think Monica Grenfell should go f*ck herself for tearing into a brave teenage girl, and while I don't love beauty pageants, I'll be cheering for Chloe.  

 


Comments

 

Manjari said:

"I think Monica Grenfell should go f*ck herself for tearing into a brave teenage girl..."

I couldn't agree more!

April 4, 2008 5:42 PM
 

mcglory13 said:

Size 16 UK is more like a 10 US.

April 4, 2008 5:47 PM
 

km said:

That girl does not look fat.  Not even pleasantly plump.  She looks like a normal girl who eats.  Maybe she is heavier than the traditional beauty pageant contestant, but at least we know she won't blow away in a heavy wind.

April 4, 2008 5:54 PM
 

Katrina said:

Wow.  Ms. Grenfell could very well be the poster child for the reality that even so-called "experts" aren't immune to stupidity.  As a dietician, she better than most should understand that an individual's health cannot be judged merely by his or her clothing size or weight.  A young woman who eats well, exercises regularly, and has a body type that is larger than the average super model is exactly who I want my daughter to recognize, respect, and relate to!

April 4, 2008 5:54 PM
 

Karen said:

Wrong on SO MANY counts. Here are just a few.

This person is "an expert?" Even a quick look at Wikipedia confirms that the normal range for BMI goes up to 25. 30+ is obese. So yes, if her BMI is 26ish, she could be classified as overweight. But she's closer to normal than she is to obese.

And so what if she were obese? I cannot imagine that there aren't other contestants with unhealthy habits - smoking? tanning? And besides, it's not a health pageant. It's a beauty pageant. And then again, why is beauty so important....

Plus, there is the complete lack of class to call a teenager "fat, lazy and a poster girl for ill health" in the title of an article in a major newspaper.

April 4, 2008 6:31 PM
 

Claire said:

Ugh, the Daily Mail is so ridiculous. And their stable of women-hating experts (who happen to be mostly women) is a joke. Monica Grenfell is the author of "Crash Diet: Lose 7 Pounds in 7 Days." Not exactly someone I would turn to for sound advice. Thanks for this post, Kelly. I'll be cheering for Chloe, too.

April 4, 2008 6:40 PM
 

Mom2Two said:

Even if she is a size 14 US, that's not neccesarily fat.  

I think Chloe is beautiful.  And I echo the "go F yourself Monica Grenfell" sentiment.

April 4, 2008 11:54 PM
 

maeby said:

I seriously doubt teens are going to look at her and say 'OMG shes a pageant winner and she got that way from over eating! that means *I* should over eat too!!"

get a brain dumbass. Shes a beautiful girl with a full figure, thats it. deal.

April 5, 2008 11:22 AM
 

Lisa G. said:

She's not plus-sized. Are we so used to seeing super-skinny girls and women that we can't even judge who's a *healthy* size anymore?

I'm 5'10" and I know when I was a size 12-14, that was as thin as I could be and still be healthy.

Furthermore, super-skinny/skinny does not necessarily equate with being healthy.

April 5, 2008 1:03 PM
 

? said:

Seriously, does no one here think she's heavy? I'm not saying she's not beautiful, and I'm not saying she's not healthy, and I'm not saying she can't be a positive role model. But she does appear overweight, and it seems strange to suggest otherwise. Let's see, she's "not necessarily fat," "not even pleasantly plump," "not plus-sized," "a normal girl," etc.

Can't she be beautiful AND fat?

April 5, 2008 10:14 PM
 

JustMarried said:

Thanks to poster Maeby for being a voice of reason...

Yes, she is maybe slightly larger than a perfectly healthy person, however - she is not fat, and since this Monica Grenfell isn't this girl's keeper, she has no IDEA how healthy she is!  Let me tell you, when I was a teenager I was never ever as thin as the other girls around me NO MATTER WHAT I ATE!  I even went to a professional nutrition and dietary center and still ended up not being able to lose all the weight I wanted to!  It got to the point that I was eating just plain chicken and melon - and not much of it - and still never reached my "goal" weight!  If there were more girls putting themselves out there at all sizes, maybe fewer of us would have had eating disorders brought on by looking at airbrushed, anorexic models in our mother's Vogue magazines!

By the way - when are we going to see people of ALL sizes?  It seems you're not worth airtime unless you're size 0 or plus-sized, and regardless, only if you're tall.  We have a long way to go is all I'm saying .... anyways, go Chloe!

April 5, 2008 11:43 PM
 

km said:

I have to say, I finally saw the rest of her pics.  She does appear a little heavier than in the pic posted here, but still, even if the girl is technically obese, it's not like she's rolling down the aisle.

When I was 17 I had a little chunk on me, that I just couldn't get rid of.  I eventually slimmed down (although, being 39 weeks pregnant right now it's hard to remember that), but at the time, I think I would have loved to see someone with a heavy build even try on a bikini, much less let someone take a photo of them in said bikini.

April 5, 2008 11:52 PM
 

AllisonWonder said:

Whatever dress size she wears, what her BMI is, the girl is beautiful- if she's a good role model in other ways, I say Go Chloe!

April 6, 2008 7:43 AM
 

Abel D. said:

I'm not a health expert, but the picture accompanying your article seems to place the extra weight around her butt, i.e. 'the pear shaped body'.  From what I've read, the unhealthy extra weight, 'fat', is that which rests above the beltline, 'belly fat'.

Unhealthy?  Maybe, but only a true 'good health' professional would know, not a hurtful slanderer.

April 7, 2008 2:18 AM
 

Patrick F. said:

She is beautiful.  What is better than a woman who looks like a woman!!!

April 8, 2008 6:42 PM
 

cindy said:

I think girls should see someone with some weight on them winning things,why should everyone be skin and bones??I think she looks just fine and she feels good about herself that's all that matters.

April 8, 2008 8:04 PM
 

san said:

She looks good enough to eat. She is definitly plump enough.

April 9, 2008 7:30 AM
 

Gina said:

I think she is a brave young girl and I hope she kicks butt.  If I had a daughter (I have 2 boy) I would love for her to look up to Chloe!  GO CHLOE!!!

April 9, 2008 2:15 PM
 

Diamond said:

I hope she wins and show everyone that eating never goes out of style

April 11, 2008 12:18 PM
 

lerumcor said:

First of all Marilyn Monroe was a size 11 -enough said! You don't ahve to starve yourself and be self obsessed to be beautiful. I have been super thin and I have been average and it didn't change who I was inside-isn't that what a role model should possess-inner beauty.

April 12, 2008 9:30 PM
 

lerumcor said:

First of all Marilyn Monroe was a size 11 -enough said! You don't ahve to starve yourself and be self obsessed to be beautiful. I have been super thin and I have been average and it didn't change who I was inside-isn't that what a role model should possess-inner beauty.

April 12, 2008 9:30 PM
 

Pamela said:

Its really, really really REALLY sad.  I have known skinny, "healthy looking" people with bulimia, anorexia and the overwhelming urge to work out like crazy for every bite of food.  There are models, beauty contestants, and other "healthy looking" people with tons of issues MENTAL and PHYSICAL that are NOT healthy.  How dare they attack this beautiful, confident woman for not HATING herself?  This is ridiculous.  They say she shouldn't be a role model... so who should? The coke-head models?  The cigarette smoking beauty contestants?  The binge-drinking, skinny women?  Women who obsess about what they EAT, and are more obsessed with dieting and exercise than being a truly healthy WELL-ROUNDED individual?  She is a role model, because she lives her life living up to her own standards, proudly, without self hatred, or low self esteem!  There are many ways to be unhealthy than to be "fat."

April 14, 2008 4:06 AM
 

tina said:

get it girl get it. dont worry bout her.

April 22, 2008 2:26 PM
 

Mike said:

monica grenfell is a moron , I think Chloe is extremely attractive and do not think she is fat at all . I think that society has forced young women to think super thin is in and it is sad . I am a personal trainer and see women like Chloe in the gym all the time , who eat healthy and excericse like crazy and are not paper thin but that is great , I agree curves are sexy . My wife is not paper thing , she exercises 2 hours a day and eats right , I think she is hot and other guys who do not she is my wife will check her out in the gym.But becuase of people like Monica Grenfell she is not happy with herself . Yes there are fat and lazy people out here but Chloe is a far far cry from that , she appears to me to be a healthy and sexy woman

April 29, 2008 1:12 PM
 

Mary Benedict said:

I have three comments:

The camera adds pounds.  I'm certain Ms. Marshall is thinner than she looks in pictures. I'd have to see her in person to decide if she really looks overweight at all.

I'm 5/5", a US size 12-14 and my BMI is just under 25, which is considered good. (Admittedly, I'm in my 40s so it's not a totally accurate comparison.)

Obese and overweight are not the same.  Being slightly overweight is not the same as obese.

April 30, 2008 4:56 PM
 

Shilpa said:

I totally agree with Pamela. Very well said. Also its an beauty contest(BEAUTY WHICH IS INTERNAL & EXTERNAL), we dont want these cigarette smoking beauty contestants walking on the ramp, with bones literally coming out of their body, mentally sick, suffering from self hatred & self obsession, & not confident about what they are & what they want to be & starving themselves so that they can fit in size 0-3. No we dont want this. This means these skinny dips are not only mentally retarded but uneducated too, suffering from some kind of severe mental trauma. And how dare they say that Chole should not be an part of dis, coz its gonna give an wrong impression to people dat being fat is okay. I guess they should encourage her & appreciate her that age of 17 she is doin awesome.And she is so lively & positive.

Infact we want someone like Chole, with both internal & external beauty, who knows who she is, very much confident about herself, intelligent & smart & who has the sense to justify that eating healthy & regular excercise is required for healthy body, u really don need to starve & make your body suffer. And who is sensible enough, capable of representing the country at international level.

Sorry these uneducated mentally retarded Skinny dips r not even worth taking part in d contest.

CHOLE U GO GURL...D CROWN IS URS:p

May 1, 2008 5:27 AM
 

jack said:

People, monica grenfell is a dietician, who earns money from people who needs to be told what to eat and what not to eat. Hey, if all the people in the world just accepts that eating things they like + exercise = beauty, then monica grenfell would be out of her job. So i think she is just giving out comments to safe guard her income, and total disreguard others' health. I would really hope that Chole won the crown, and send a msg to the world that letting a dietician sucking on your income is not a pre-requistic to becoming a world model.    

May 1, 2008 7:26 AM
 

LA said:

As what most people consider a plus size all of my life, go get it Chloe.  I am 5' 6" and even when I was very slim (130 pounds was average) and was a size 14 someone mooed at me in a bathing suit.  People are cruel and it needs to stop now.  Chloe is obviously beautiful and intelligent and I am too.  My husband hasn't complained anyway!

May 1, 2008 4:23 PM
 

Yo-Yo girl said:

Why can't we just accept people for who they are and what they stand for.  She exercises regularly and as long as she is healthy who are we to judge one way or the other.  Congratulations to such a young woman for standing up to horrible and often deadly stereotypes of what beautiful looks like!

May 1, 2008 5:12 PM
 

Megan said:

Miss Marshall is a beautiful woman. She is a welcomed change from the size zero models that seem to be the norm. I  think she is amazing to stand up for curvier girls. I think if girls today had a healthier view of weight, it would help both the anorexic and the overweight sides the the spectrum.

You go girl!!!

May 2, 2008 6:28 PM
 

William A Carpenter said:

Monica Grenfel... I think you need a alot of petroleum jelly to remove that huge foot of yours out of your mouth.  Lest you feel that the "0's" are not a good role model also.  And were that true, why didn't you speak up long ago about their not being thus.  You know what I think???  You are a retard, not truely a dietician, and definately not built with the ability of having the mental faculty for common sense.  Yours truly and most graciously devoted to poking you in the eye one day,  

William A Carpenter;

Chef, father of two lovely little girls and a bloody yank!!!

P.S. I'm givin you a proper "V" sign right now

May 3, 2008 5:00 PM

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