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Should You "Party Train" Your Kids?

Posted by Kelly Mills

liberals as bogeymen--and women. Who says there isn't equal opportunity?Two toddlers meet in the sandbox. One is wearing a "Bush is my man" t-shirt, while the other has on a "Mommy and me love Hilary" onesie. I think it's unlikely this will degenerate into a discussion about how we don't bite kids with different political beliefs than our own, because these kids are probably less aware they are advertising for political candidates. And it's an intertesting issue raised in this CNN article: Is there anything wrong with "party training" your kids? One therapist says, "It seems cute and benign. However, the more I think about it, the more it fails to pass my cringe test. It seems that we're bombarded enough by constant advertising, so why should children become the canvas for any ad?... Do we really want to see kids in this role?"

Parents defend the onesies and political slogan tees by saying they are passing on their values to their kids. But I'll be honest, even beyond political outfits at a certain level it makes me uncomfortable too. Something about children parroting political beliefs they don't even understand feels like mindless indoctrination to me. If you feel okay with this, imagine a young child espousing the opinions of the side you disagree with.

However, I'd hate to raise a child with no awareness of the issues of the day just because I was anxious about making her a propaganda billboard. In our house we do talk about issues we consider social justice--like gay marriage or racial discrimination--and we most certainly explain our beliefs on this to our child, that feels like passing on basic values to me. We try and avoid being dogmatic about political candidates, and most of the time we fail miserably. 

Am I the only one who has even thinks this is an issue, and how do you draw lines? 


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Comments

 

K said:

I kinda thought "awareness" meant "being informed" not "being indoctrinated". Yes, you should explain your own beliefs to your kids. No, you shouldn't expect them to share them no matter how much you explain it. But they deserve to be fully informed so as to have the ability to make up their own minds. You know, so they can be fully fledged humans when they leave the nest.

Isn't it better for kids to develop their own beliefs that they make their own, rather than have your beliefs plastered on their stomachs?

February 6, 2008 12:01 PM
 

karmamama said:

It's a fine line, I think. I grew up in a house where no one talked about politics, and it's taken me a long time to find my way and be comfortable talking about political issues and deciding what my views are. On the other hand, politics are personal and you shouldn't be talking about them in such a way that your kids think your views are the ONLY views.

That said, I dressed my 10 month old in a onesie that supported my candidate when we attended our caucus last night. Would I do it if she were 4 years old? Probably not. But I just thought it was cute and funny, and she obviously doesn't care.

February 6, 2008 12:43 PM
 

chyna823 said:

Kids have no idea what's on their shirts unless it's Dora or Spiderman. Worrying about political slogans on kids shirts is overthinking things to a ridiculous degree.

February 6, 2008 1:32 PM

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