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Kids Listen To Music Full of Drug References

Posted by Kelly Mills
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When I was a kid, I wasn't allowed to listen to the radio. (Yes, I essentially lived Footloose, people.) Even as a kid I remember thinking this was dumb--I mean, if I sang "Seduce me tonight" from the Flashdance soundtrack, it wasn't like I really meant it, I just liked the song. I thought of this when I paused, hearing my six-year-old warble, "Don't you wish your girlfriend was a freak like me" the other day. But perhaps I ought to be listening harder for the drugs, man.

A new study found that a third of popular American songs today have references to drugs, alcohol, and tobacco, and two-thirds of those are positive references, associating substances with good times. Oh yeah, and rap was number one in this, and country was number two. In fact, the lead author says, "It's not going to be feasible or even desirable to censor these messages. Probably a more empowering approach is to teach kids to analyze and evaluate the messages for themselves." So there you go. Talk to your kids, don't go Footloose. You heard it hear first.

By the way, are you worried? 


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Comments

 

Janice said:

Okay, um,  "Tequila Makes Her Clothes Fall Off" which is focused on in the article is one of my favorite songs.  And I'm not sorry. I'm an adult, I have a right to listen to songs about adult themes.

I couldn't imagine have my music censored back when I was childless anymore than I would tolerate it now.  I think we have to teach our kids that some things are for adults only.  There are already things that my toddler son can't have that we do.  Coffee or extremely spicy food or knives come to mind.

And we will be talking about the fact that drugs and tobacco are not to be tolerated, and that alcohol, while legal for adults, has to be used wisely.

It's okay for tequila to make your clothes fall off if you are aware of the fact and take measures to protect yourself.  In my opinion, of course.  Some parents will teach their kids not to drink any alcohol, ever, and that's their choice.

February 4, 2008 7:09 PM
 

Tracey said:

Geez, my mother almost took us to see "Tommy" in the theater when I was a kid. Almost. Which pretty much sums up her parenting style. Not much was censored and she barely protected us from the worst.

I'm not naive neough to believe I can protect my son from that kind of thing, (and frankly I'm more concerned about the internet). I just hope we raise him with enough sense to stick to weed if/when he experiments and to stay away from coke/heroin/boutique synthetic drugs.

And I think this is an optimistic perspective!    

February 4, 2008 7:45 PM
 

mcglory13 said:

Well, I'm pleased to say that no song about drugs has ever made me want to do drugs. Ever. Hopefully whatever lessons my parents taught me I can pass on. Seriously, I can't imagine someone listening to a song and saying, "hey, that song mentions coke, I should do some!"

February 4, 2008 10:30 PM
 

Sue said:

Yeah, it's a good thing none of the songs I was raised with had any drug references. Except "Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds," and of course "Puff the Magic Dragon" which I listened to as a child. Eeek, I've just dated myself. Oh well, it's not like anyone else is going to.

February 5, 2008 8:14 AM
 

RachelZ said:

HOW is this an issue?   What the hell is wrong with people that they are worried about drug references in music?  Kids ignore most of that stuff anyway.  When I was a kid, my mom used to type out lyrics to songs for us to sing in the car during road trips.  "Walk on the Wild Side" was a big favorite, as was most of the Neil Young catalog.

GOD, people.  Freak out about something meaningful for once.

February 5, 2008 1:18 PM
 

LogicalMama said:

Aside from not even knowing what the words mean, let's talk about not even know what the words ARE?! This is not an issue for me at all! I can't tell you how many songs from my youth that I hear as an adult and think, "that's what they're saying?"

For example, it took me a long time to realize that in Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds, they are singing, "the girl with kalidescope eyes..." I thought it was, "the girl with colitis goes by...."  

BeeGees: "Bald headed woman... oooh, bald headed woman to me....."

I hear my son singing sometimes and laugh at what he hears them saying!

February 5, 2008 5:59 PM

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