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Cooking With Your Kids = Getting Your Kids to Cook

Posted by Karen Murphy

cooking with kidsWhich in my case = letting go of the reins enough to let the kids in the kitchen. Anyone else have this problem? Theoretically, I have no problem with my kids cooking. I would love for them to cook. It's a life skill I know they'll need eventually, and cooking together can be a lot of fun, a bonding experience. Plus it can unbond YOU from the kitchen. So why can't I embrace these concepts?

Seriously, I am creating a monster here, a family of kids who expect to be served, yet I don't know what to do about it. Because letting them in to my domain, letting them make messes and break eggs seems like so much work. How do you make the transition? it's not like my kids don't already have an interest in cooking, because they do. They even make up recipes. But somehow, going from purely theoretical to practical seems like a huge step.

Newsday suggests starting with things like making pizza. Okay, done that. On English muffins, on homemade pizza dough, whatever. But one can eat only so much pizza. My kids watch "Top Chef" with me; that's not enough, is it? But how do you take them from stirring the weekly pancake batter to making an entire meal at age 10 (according to the article in Newsday)? I made my first meal for my family when I was about 12 or so and based on the feedback chose never to cook again for them; what do you do when your kid sucks as a cook?

Anybody? Thoughts? Other than the obvious, of course ("start slow", "supervise", etc.). I know my kids want to cook, and I want them to, yet how to bridge the gap without just binding and gagging myself for the evening?


Comments

 

Heather said:

How old are your children?  Quite young children can help with salad prep by tearing lettuce leaves and rinsing produce.  As they get older and more coordinated have them grate cheese, carrots, peel potatoes etc.  When they are ready introduce them to slicing and have them work as prep cook. Heck, I love it when my husband or stepdaughter helps out with the chopping and slicing.

Have young children set timers, show them the food as you take it out of the oven, explain how you know it is done.  Let them know it's not just because the timer dinged, it's because the meat is at a certain temp or the cake springs back when touched, or the toothpick comes out clean.  All of these things that may be second nature to you need to be explained.

October 23, 2007 8:43 AM
 

Cecelia said:

My children are grown and married and have families of their own.  I taught them how to cook and they all do very well.  They (2 boys and 1 girl) can cook a pound cake as good as I can or my mom.  

To begin with, I started letting them cook one thing to go with the rest of the dinner I was preparing.  That way if something went really wrong, we had something else to eat.  

We cleaned the kitchen together.  They loved the suddy water and got really wet.  That was ok, we then cleaned the floor.

We learned to set the table together.  It did not start happening at once nor did it come to perfection at once.  There were plenty of mistakes.  

My children still love to come home and experiment.  They have learned to take a recipe and add to it.  The last one we did was a lobster bisque.  It was delicious!  As we added to the recipe, we wrote down the new ingredients.  Perfect!  We have made it time and again.

They will all be home for Thanksgiving.  There will be a traditional turkey dinner with stuffing [some with celery and some without] and the night after is our special seafood buffet, with none other than our special lobster bisque.

October 23, 2007 4:51 PM
 

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