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Babble Talk: Elisha Cooper's Crawling

Posted by Gwynne Watkins

One of the first "Bad Parent" pieces we ran on Babble was an excerpt from Elisha Cooper's memoir Crawling: A Father's First Year. Here's a paragraph from that piece, entitled  "Face-Off: Fights I've Had With My Three-Month-Old": 

Zoë starts crying and I walk outside to, in theory, calm her. I lose my composure in an instant. It's not quite clear to me why. Even as I half-heartedly sing, let her suck my arm, point out the moon, she knows I am upset and everything I do just makes her madder. She starts hyperventilating. She's glaring right into my eyes. I'm glaring right back. It's like we're facing each other from either end of a dusty street in a Western, only instead of pistols we have similar genes.

This week, Crawling came out in paperback with a snazzy new cover. You can order it here.


Comments

 

Autumn said:

What a dope. She was hungry and he thought she could read his mind.  He sounds so self absorbed.  Ignoring the physical needs of an infant, expecting a three month old to lift their wobbly head to see the moon.  That poor kid was trying to tell that dope to feed her and he decides she is just trying to piss him off.  I sure hope she did not get his moron gene.

September 21, 2007 9:30 PM
 

Rebecca said:

Hasn't everyone been there though? I remember feeling the same way at some point while trying to raise my son by myself. It sometimes takes a while to realize that babies really are helpless and defensible. I have read the book, and I could totally relate to the author and his frustrations.

September 22, 2007 3:48 AM

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