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Liposuction and Gastric Lap Band for 13-Year-Old: Child Abuse?

Posted by Kelly Mills
brooke bates at 13Brooke Bates had liposuction at age 12. She has now gained 35 or the 40 pounds back, so her mom took her to Mexico so she could get gastric band surgery. Why Mexico? Because doctors here won't do that kind of surgery on anyone under 18. They also have to have a BMI of at least 40 or be twice their ideal weight. Brooke's mom believes the surgery is the only way to keep her daughter from overeating, and obviously that's real important here. And of course, some folks are calling this child abuse. Brooke's mom and sis commented on Back in Skinny Jeans about the whole thing, and her mom said, "Just because majority of Doctors say that this procedure (liposuction) is dangerous, how the heck would they really know because they have never taken that much weight from the patients that they see. THEY SHOULD GIVE IT A TRY."

You know, I'm actually sympathetic (well, towards Brooke) only because I remember how hard it can be to be anything other than thin and cheerleader-y at that age. But sympathetic doesn't translate to thinking this is a good idea. Obviously surgery is a drastic measure and a temporary fix without lifestyle changes, and as a mom I can't imagine putting my kid under the knife for anything less than the real crucial stuff. Being skinny doesn't qualify for that. And what message does it send to your kid? Anyhow, I'm not really interested in giving this a child abuse label, but I think it's sad and twisted. If you wanna call it like you see it, fine.


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Comments

 

roxannex said:

I just think that there are other options long before resorting to surgery. I've struggled with my weight since puberty. I spent two summers at a weight loss camp as a young teenager. (I wanted to go. No one forced me.) How about something like that? Go away for 8 weeks. Come back thin(ner). Or how about spending that money on a personal trainer and a dietician. If you have the money to spend on weight loss surgery for your child, there are lots of other ways to help the kid lose weight.

August 19, 2007 1:51 PM
 

Jane said:

Definitely sad and twisted. The thing that concerns me the most is the idea that, if this type of thing were to go unregulated, parents would be even lazier about nutrition and wellness.  You know, if she gets fat, we'll just shrink her stomach. It's the way us Americans like our fixes: quick and easy, and expensive and unnecessary.  

And from a distribution of wealth perspective, it's even more twisted.  How much of the world is impovershed and/or malnurished?  We're so wealthy, we get fat, then still have so much money left over, we get unnecessary surgery to fix the problem our wealth created. In the meantime, children in third world nations die from being malnourished.  Twisted.

August 19, 2007 8:09 PM
 

Mom2Two said:

A teenage girl who undergoes major gastric surgery faces never being able to eat enough to nourish a growing baby.  I wonder if Brooke's mom has any plans for grandchildren.  It sounds more like the person who has a problem with Brooke overeating is not Brooke, but her mother.  And that is *sad*.

August 20, 2007 1:49 PM
 

Angel said:

It's disgusting.  Where the hell is Child Services???  My daughter is 12....that poor girl.  If that's a current photo, what the f***?  She doesn't look fat at all.

Shame, shame on her parents.  They should be locked up.

August 22, 2007 12:19 AM
 

Lena said:

My daughter is like Brooke. From age 7 she just starting gaining weight, we watched her with the junk food, she got exercise, we saw doctors. By age 14 she weighed 240lbs. We took her to a doctor who told us she had an eating disorder (over eating). She's now 17 weighing about 267 on her way to turning 18 and is getting plastic surgery. We support her 100% and if we would have known all the problems she was going to go through as she grew up, we would have done a surgery at 16. Call it crazy, child abuse, whatever. You don't know what we went through. You don't know the emotional and physical pain.

September 1, 2007 10:19 PM

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