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Travels With Kids: Abroad Is Better Older

Posted by Kelly Mills

mapNot that I'm bitter that the extent of my summer traveling was a seven-hour van ride to Disneyland: here's a nice piece on the pros and cons of traveling with kids. Most of the folks agreed that for any kind of big-deal, sightseeing vacation, you are better off waiting until the children are old enough to appreciate the adventure. I like these tips from Lonely Planet co-founder Maureen Wheeler. She advises "waiting until kids are 3, 'when they're out of diapers, when they can eat food, when they can talk.' If you're planning once-in-a-lifetime trips, 'then maybe you don't start traveling with your children until the age of 7 to 10.'" Because do you really wanna deal with changing a poopy diaper at the Sistine Chapel?

On the pro side of venturing forth with kids, travel author Pauline Frommer says, "'So what are parents with wanderlust to do? Just stick with the tried and true theme park and cruise vacations, squelching their own desires to see the world? For many, leaving the kids at home over vacation just isn't doable, financially or emotionally.'" I know a few families that have traveled extensively with tiny babies and toddlers, and I will tell you they posses an easy-going, adventurous attitude I will never have. They also do things like eat food from stands on the side of the road and meet locals who invite them to stay in their homes. If you are one of those people, you could probably roam the streets of Nepal with two children under the age of three and be fine. Me, I'm just glad I survived the van ride.


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yvette said:

We traveled around Europe for 3.5 months when my son just turned 14 months.  Because we stayed in people's apartments, we were always in a very livable neighborhood with playgrounds, pools, families and grocery stores.  We stayed in each country for 2-4 weeks and took side trips to the ocean, mountains, wine region.  We made friends in every city and even joined a playgroup in Amsterdam and Barcelona.  Our son got to taste foods from a lot of different places (14 - 17 months is the perfect age to introduce flavors and tastes that develop the child's palate for later in life, it's also the age before they get "picky").  We were lucky in that my husband could work remotely on his laptop, so he'd take a few hours a day at an internet cafe and we'd have the rest of the time to explore as a family.

July 10, 2007 2:18 PM
 

Cali said:

If you are expecting a quiet, romantic candlelit dinner by the Grand Canal or a fast-paced hike through the Andes, you are probably right.

However, I think you can take great vacations with tots and babies as long as you take it slow.  One of the great things about babies in general is that they really help you to stop and smell the roses.

From another perspective, on our honeymoon in Italy we met a couple traveling with their three kids...they said the earlier you start them traveling, the better travelers they'll be.

I see your point about not wanting poopy diapers in the middle of your once in a lifetime trip.

However, I have learned that if you wait for things to be perfect, that day may never come.

Babies with poopy diapers, toddlers with tantrums, five year olds that don't want to go into another "boring" church or museum, pre-teens that don't want to be seen anywhere with their un-hip parents.  Not to mention if you have more than one kid, you would have to wait until the youngest reaches whatever age you were waiting for.

So, I say, sure, know your own style and limitations, but also carpe diem.

Or, as my husband's grandfather (RIP) used to like to sing...

"Enjoy yourself, it's later than you think..."

July 10, 2007 3:55 PM
 

letvs said:

I'm all for travelling with little ones. Our son has travelled with us (in planes, trains and automobiles) since he was a few months old, and we've not had any dramatic scenes. We just plan, take it easy and visit playgrounds and parks a bit more often. Can't wait to get him his tiny carry-on with wheels when he's about 3...

July 11, 2007 4:03 AM

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