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Stranger Danger Message Not Sinking In

Posted by Patti

If this doesn't give you a lurch in your gut, I don't know what will: a Louisville news station teamed up with a child safety expert to test the responses of children to being approached by strangers, and over half of the children trotted right off with the stranger.

The expert used common methods employed by abductors, such as the "come see this cool toy I have" and "come help me find my dog" gambits. Participating parents watched in astonishment as their children walked off with the man posing as a stranger. 

I have one kid who barely talks to anyone outside her household, but the other one? She'll accost people in the grocery store and tell them her name, her sister's name, her cats' names, which Sesame Street character is on her diaper, what kind of car we drove to the store, and anything else that pops in her head. She's never even met a stranger as far as she's concerned, and reading stories like this chills me to the bone. Time for a little Safe Side Superchick up in here.  

 


Posted May 25 2007, 07:57 AM
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Naomi said:

Oh, f*ck.  I know my younger one would be one of those kids.

May 25, 2007 10:19 AM
 

Kristen said:

This is a really scary thing to hear but at least I am not alone. The other day I woke up to a man speaking to my 3 year old son through his bedroom window. I flipped. I explained to my son that people mommy's age and older that mommy doesn't know and he doesn't know are strangers. I also explained that kids his age are not so much strangers as potential friends. This did not work however. On the way to the park he had his window down and he preceded to talk to some lady in another car and later run away from kids his own age. Argh... What am I going to do???

May 25, 2007 2:52 PM
 

Megan said:

I see two problems with this.  

1.  The people they have set up to lure these kids aren't *really* trying to hurt them.  A real predator is going to have a creepy vibe and make the kid feel creepy, right?  Right?  Eh, maybe not.

2.  The people who abduct kids are MOST OFTEN someone they know.  The stranger-danger thing is going to work against a child in the event they become separated from you in a public place.  Who are they to go to for help?

My two cents.

May 26, 2007 1:23 PM

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