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The Lonely Internet Life of Children

The Internet may prevent institutionalization for many mamas and papas, but for kids it can be an activity that encourages more isolation than connection.  According to one study, the Internet makes it more difficult for kids to relate IRL (in real life) if they spend too much time with the chatting/emailing/My Space-ing.

Even very young children who can learn important socialization skills during their young years, are damaged by too much time playing video games.  I'm not sure this warrants a full Waldorf reaction, but it certainly makes me less inclined to let my young girls play Mickey Mouse computer games.

Whether it's really the Internet or other key factors (less time with parents, more television, more exposure to violence).  In reaction the studies findings, schools are encouraging kids to build friendships by having friendship days.  Friendship days? We're not doing our job people.  And we shouldn't expect schools to pick up the slack.


Comments

 

ji said:

My school had friendship days when I was a kid and that was before everyone had a computer at home.

However, while my kid is very young (5), I don't allow TV or computers. While he's still developing so much, I thnk its important to have more tactile toys and for him to challenge his imagination, not just his reflexes, and explore the world outside.

I don't know what I'll do later. I'll just see how the kid and our situations develope.

May 8, 2007 12:02 PM
 

crunchy said:

I don't think you can blame the internet or video games..I think they are a symptom and what people and kids turn to as an alternative.

Life HAS changed.

Kids are not out pulling little 'Lord of Flies' from dawn to dusk anymore.

Parents are working, or isolated themselves or not in safe neighbourhoods.

There is the socialization..everything is organized and parent or adult run.

As a kid..all the way to grade 7 we were playing imaginary games inbetween the more 'sporty' activiteis of skipping, elastics etc...

Imaginary and social play seems to have gone the way of the dodo.

Our society doesn't allow for social learning anymore...not unless taught by an adult.

May 8, 2007 12:04 PM
 

Airwick said:

how about some classic perspective here ... just like with many things ... moderation is a good thing ... some computer time is a good thing, too much is a bad thing.  some time playing with other kids is a good thing, too much is a bad thing.

May 9, 2007 8:51 PM
 

Strollerderby said:

It's true. Outside of school, my kids have no friends. Growing up, even though I attended a school miles

June 6, 2007 3:14 PM

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