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Bring on the Daddy Wars!

Self-Made Mom is urging readers to head over to MomsRising and sign the petition to 'end the mommy wars.'  The petition is directed at CBS, NBC, ABC and other media outlets, and urges them to shift coverage from headline-grabbing mythic mommy war struggles to the real problems facing families today.

This petition is part of a larger effort coordinated by M.O.T.H.E.R.S. (Mothers Ought to Have Equal Rights) to present this signed petition at a Mother's Day "Mommy Wars Ceasefire" to be held on Mother's Day 2007.  Mothers Day was originally conceptualized as a day for families to work together to better their communities.  MOTHERS and MomsRising want to return to the original intention of the 2nd Sunday in June by calling a ceasefire in the Mommy Wars.Self-Made Mom is urging readers to head over to MomsRising and sign the petition to 'end the mommy wars.'  The petition is directed at CBS, NBC, ABC and other media outlets, and urges them to shift coverage from headline-grabbing mythic mommy war struggles to the real problems facing families today.

But I'm in favor of the mommy wars.  The language of war may be divisive and encourage divisions and fake mommy factions, but it simultaneously brings the discussion to some dinner tables that might not otherwise talk of these things at all. 

This country is hemorrhaging federal dollars to fund the War on Iraq.  If it takes talk of mommy wars to keep issues such as daycare and health insurance coverage on the national agenda, then so be it.  In fact, let's stop leaving daddies out of the equation (this petition is very momcentric, after all).  Bring on the daddy wars!


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Comments

 

bubbles76angel said:

The Mommy Wars suck!  Nothing is redeeming about it.  It doesn't bring "discussion to some dinner tables that might not otherwise talk of these things at all."  People and what they care about bring about discussion. It doesn't take Mommy Wars to highlight these things.  We could have an informed public without them.

We shouldn't belittle others just because they choose to stay home with the kids or not.  I can't even begin to count the number of times people have implied that I'm a bad mother for not staying home with my child.  Or that I'm being selfish for choosing to work than take care of my child.  On the flip side, I have 2 SAHM friends, one doesn't have a job and the other works from home.  One gets flack for not working and contributing and being feminist enough.

It's stupid to argue about personal choice, whether forced or not.  We are all moms doing the best we can for our children regardless of whether we stay at home or return to the workforce, or if we can rangle itm, both.  

January 29, 2007 12:59 PM
 

housewife said:

There is no mommy war left here.

I won't spend my day with a nanny.  My children won't spend their time with someone else's nanny.

The kids who have been nannied are so impossibly spoiled with table manners that seriously make me puke that they're no longer welcome here.

My kids don't go to daycare so they can't make friends with those kids...

And if you call me from your office and ask me to get your kids the new answer is, "sorry, we're super busy.  Why don't you call the school office..."

Because I'm really fucking tired of you using me as a parachute every time you run late.

They're your kids.  You raise them.

February 3, 2007 11:05 AM
 

Emily said:

MomsRising is making a big splash in the New York Times today.   Here's the link --

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/02/22/fashion/22mothers.html?pagewanted=1&_r=1

February 22, 2007 6:44 AM

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