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Unschooling: A Stupid Idea, Or Merely A Dumb One?

Posted by JasonAvant

There are two rules of thumb that smart parentbloggers adhere to. One – don’t write a post asking the general public if you should circumcise your son. Two – when you have a splitting headache, don’t write about homeschooling. As I’m not one for rules, and not particularly smart (example: I took my wife and two-year-old son on a cross-country road trip for the holidays, thinking that spending seven days in the car while dodging blizzards and the occasional sandstorm would be “fun”; it might have been, were I Ernest Shackleton), I bring you this curious piece on unschooling.

 

“Unschooling” is a form of homeschooling, in which the kids get to direct their own “education”. According to the article, there’s very little in the way of structure – children learn about what’s interesting to them, or they watch TV or play Xbox, whatever they prefer. Advocates say that unschooling is an antidote to the often static curricula and rigid devotion to rules found in most public schools. Skeptics argue that young kids lack the proper mindset and maturity to recognize that subjects that are important (basic math, science, and history) are not always “fun”. Indeed, with American students falling behind the rest of the world in knowledge of the hard sciences, the idea of unschooling seems even more ridiculous than having undereducated parents attempting to homeschool their kids on complex subjects. Then again, I would argue that if the student in question were in his or her late teens/early twenties, one could take the unschooling concept, toss in an endless supply of cheap beer and/or bad weed, and rename the thing “college”. 

 

There’s certainly a case to be made that the traditional method of schooling is not and should not be for all students, and that as a society we need to rethink our notions of “success” and “education”; as my dad was fond of saying every time I brought home a “C” in math, the world needs ditchdiggers too. It seems to me, though, that unschooling is an inherently bad idea. Unless there’s money to be made playing Doom 3.


Comments

 

COD said:

Ah, the 'ole throw out an uninformed opinion on homeschooling and watch the page views and comments fly trick. Good luck with that.

BTW, top professional video game players are making over $100K a year, and they have televised competitions. I've stopped on it for a few minutes when channel surfing DirecTV. I can't imagine that it's a long term career, but then blogging probably isn't either.

January 9, 2007 4:40 PM
 

Mike Adamick (Cry It Out!) said:

I think this is great practice for when the kids get older and begin unworking.

January 9, 2007 4:58 PM
 

thezeroboss said:

Please, Chris. Given that I unschool MY kids, do you really think we'd play that "trick"?

Jason's opinion is his honest one. It's totally fucking wrong, but at least it's honest.

Jason - "unschooling" works because you teach kids at an early age to be self-directed learners. I don't know of a single unschooling parent who lets their kids spend an inordinate time on Xbox or screwing around. Most parents have rules about how much time needs to be spent on educational pursuits vs. pure pleasure; we just don't insist that their learning time be spent on this vs. that.

And yes, if you start them out young enough, it does work. Remarkably well.

January 9, 2007 7:04 PM
 

COD said:

Knowing an uninformed opinion will still pay off in  some other way does make the decision to throw it out there easier.

I'm just saying...

Unschooling also works because kids, when really into the subject, can absorb amazing amounts of information in a shockingly short time period. And it's not rare that the hours spent beating Medal of Honor Pacific Assault on the PS2 will lead a kid to diving deep into what really happened in WWII.

January 9, 2007 9:57 PM
 

JasonAvant said:

Chris - by "uniformed", I assume you mean "doesn't agree with what I believe". Which is fine, but bolstering your case by citing the .00000001 percent of people who make a living playing videogames is not convincing. Also, if sarcasm isn't your thing, your time might be better spent elsewhere.

It's hard to argue that our public schools are anything but a collective failure; fans of irony will certainly appreciate that the National Teacher's Hall of Fame is located smack dab in the middle of Bible-As-Fact Kansas. As I implied in the article, homeschooling is a perfectly viable alternative for parents who have the patience, perception and the education to successfully educate their children at home. I would certainly lump you and Jay in that category. What is troubling is the percentage of parents who lack the aforementioned, and who will be doing their kids a disservice by thinking that by giving them free reign to do as they will, without a bit of guidance, they'll be able to function in an increasingly competitive world. Parents have a responsibilty to their children to provide the best education possible; if that is to occur in the home, they'd better be up to the task.

January 10, 2007 12:16 PM
 

Rahab said:

This is a very old idea. Rousseau wrote about it in Emile in the 1700's. It has nothing to do with over indulging bad behaviors.

January 10, 2007 12:38 PM
 

COD said:

I wasn't citing my case as much as merely pointing out that there is indeed money to be made playing Doom 3.

You stated that "unschooling is an inherently bad idea." Given the number of successful people in the world that come from an unschooled childhood, your statement is patently wrong. Too much good has come from unschooled kids for it to be an inherently bad idea. It doesn't have to be a big number, any good outcomes essentially negate the idea that unschooling is inherently bad.

Actually, I thought you got that, which is why I sort of  jokingly accused you of fishing for the 50 comment homeschooler barrage that occasionally accompanies these discussions.

January 10, 2007 1:05 PM
 

viciousrumours said:

I started homeschooling my daughter after she spent five years in public school and was ultimately labled "ADHD" because she would lose "focus".  Turns out she was just bored out of her mind.

The first year I tried a traditional curriculum based approach to schooling.  She was still bored.  Now, after doing the research I have combined a couple of things, one of which is "unschooling".  We still have some books and I assign some work, but it is set up more like a college course.  I don't force her and she's learning at an amazing rate.

This set up also allows me the freedom to stay on a subject she loves longer and ensure that she actually understands what she's learned.  

January 30, 2007 2:47 AM
 

Scott Hughes said:

In my experience, parents who unschool put more effort in their child's education than others, on average. Additionally, the kids spend more time on productive activities such as reading and writing. Where as, schooled kids are the ones who spend all day misbehaving in school and then come home and watch TV. To each his own.

Thanks,

Scott Hughes

<a href="http://forums.unschool.info">Education Forums</a>

February 2, 2007 5:58 PM
 

Stacie said:

I am a homeschooling parent.  My oldest daughter has been reading since the age of 2 and is almost 6 and reading at a a very high level. tested as an IQ of over 140 and proundly gifted.

with the point in case being that your typical "schooling" has your lesson plans - basically we learn all about frogs this week and tress the next etc. etc.  

unschooling starts with the child-- what are they interested in .... if your child is interested in fish-the child is taught all about fish and learning and interest of the child carefully watched to gear what will be taught.  basically you hop right in and "over-induldge" in the topic of their interest for that week or month.  

Taking that topic into other areas of learning, reading, writing, arts, math, vocabulary, movement,  etc.  This creates a love of learning with the child and a new topic of interest will stem from there learning experiences.

It takes a lot of dedication, interest, observation, creativity and hard work to use a so called... unschooling method.  With the best of interest in learning is extremely geared toward and special for the child.

I think there needs to be a renaming of unschooling to INDULGENCE LEARNING... or something of the sort.

Your child will have a love of learning!!  beacuse it was fun - not forced.

Ps. we love waldorf education as well.... should it spark another debate.

February 2, 2007 9:32 PM
 

Stacie said:

correction :  typo - profoundly

February 2, 2007 9:33 PM

About JasonAvant

Jason Avant is the Founder and Managing Editor of DadCentric, a groundbreaking and popular blog that, according to his agent, provides an offbeat look at events and issues that affect today's fathers. He also writes for Maya's Mom, and his personal blog, Pet Cobra. Jason lives and works in San Diego, Calif. with his wife and two-year old son. His hobbies include surfing, skateboarding, muttering under his breath, haggis tasting, macrame', and writing short descriptions about himself in the third person.

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