I haven't really posted since my rainbowy gumdrop post two months ago when I praised our speech therapist and wrote about how much we all loved her and wanted to marry her and blah-blah. And I meant it. She was really great. When she showed up. It seems that, although Early Intervention was eager to "intervene" and send all kinds of specialists our way at first, they sort of half-assed the follow-up situation. Our speech therapist showed up about 25% of the time, calling in an hour after we expected her with all kinds of excuses why she couldn't make it. And that was just the first month. It's been three weeks since we had any communication with our therapist at all. Uh... Hello? Earth to speech therapist! Come in speech therapist.

Waiting for Godot, er, Go Dog Go, a favorite read/activity with our MIA Speech Therapist
Fortunately Archer has been talking quite a bit on his own so although he doesn't really *need* a speech therapist, I do think it would be helpful to have somebody working with him besides Hal and I. I guess it's kind of like wanting what I can't have. When therapy was thrust upon us forcefully I wanted nothing to do with it but now that we've been totally brushed-off and ignored by the system I'm kind of pissed. And a little bit psycho ex-girlfriend with the whole situation: What's wrong with us? Are we not good enough for you? Why don't you call? Why don't you like us? WE LOOOOVE YOU. Wah-sniff!
Archer, being two and a half has six months left of free therapy until he turns three and we gotta start payin' up so I'd like to figure this all out, like, now. But certain *ahem* people don't have the same time sensitivity. I will say this: One of the awesome things about Early Intervention is that you get free preschool out of the deal. So Archer starts school beginning of January free of charge. Cool, right? So I guess I can't really bitch *that* much. Preschool is expensive, man! Crazy expensive. $860.00 a month and that's for the cheap schools! "Oy to the vey", I say!
Anyway... This post is kind of an inquiry for those of you who have dealt with and/or work for any Early Intervention type services. Is this standard practice or are we the anomaly, here? I want to support Early Intervention. I really do, because I think it's great that it exists for families who need some extra assistance but come on, people. You're not making it easy on me to support a system that has thrown us for a loop when it seems like a relatively straight-forward situation. Archer is approved for Speech Therapy. We are assigned a speech therapist. And not even one month later... Dead air. Nothing. I feel so used.
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