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Early Intervention: An (Annoyed) Update

I haven't really posted since my rainbowy gumdrop post two months ago when I praised our speech therapist and wrote about how much we all loved her and wanted to marry her and blah-blah. And I meant it. She was really great. When she showed up. It seems that, although Early Intervention was eager to "intervene" and send all kinds of specialists our way at first, they sort of half-assed the follow-up situation. Our speech therapist showed up about 25% of the time, calling in an hour after we expected her with all kinds of excuses why she couldn't make it. And that was just the first month. It's been three weeks since we had any communication with our therapist at all. Uh... Hello? Earth to speech therapist! Come in speech therapist.

 

Swing

 Waiting for Godot, er, Go Dog Go, a favorite read/activity with our MIA Speech Therapist

 

Fortunately Archer has been talking quite a bit on his own so although he doesn't really *need* a speech therapist, I do think it would be helpful to have somebody working with him besides Hal and I. I guess it's kind of like wanting what I can't have. When therapy was thrust upon us forcefully I wanted nothing to do with it but now that we've been totally brushed-off and ignored by the system I'm kind of pissed. And a little bit psycho ex-girlfriend with the whole situation: What's wrong with us? Are we not good enough for you? Why don't you call? Why don't you like us? WE LOOOOVE YOU. Wah-sniff!

 

Archer, being two and a half has six months left of free therapy until he turns three and we gotta start payin' up so I'd like to figure this all out, like, now. But certain *ahem* people don't have the same time sensitivity. I will say this:  One of the awesome things about Early Intervention is that you get free preschool out of the deal. So Archer starts school beginning of January free of charge. Cool, right? So I guess I can't really bitch *that* much. Preschool is expensive, man! Crazy expensive. $860.00 a month and that's for the cheap schools! "Oy to the vey", I say!

 

Anyway... This post is kind of an inquiry for those of you who have dealt with and/or work for any Early Intervention type services. Is this standard practice or are we the anomaly, here? I want to support Early Intervention. I really do, because I think it's great that it exists for families who need some extra assistance but come on, people. You're not making it easy on me to support a system that has thrown us for a loop when it seems like a relatively straight-forward situation. Archer is approved for Speech Therapy. We are assigned a speech therapist. And not even one month later... Dead air. Nothing. I feel so used.

 

 

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Comments

 

Matilda said:

I used EI for my son.  We had great therapists who showed up but I've heard horror stories.  Do you already have a placement for him for January?  Is it through EI or CPSE?  

December 4, 2007 9:23 AM
 

Heather said:

I am an occupational therapist and work for EI in NJ.  On the initial paperwork you received,there should be a phone number for a service coordinator/case manager who is like the "customer service" rep. You should call her and let her know how many sessions have been missed.  Each state has their own rules about make up sessions, but I would think you should get some.

Good luck!

December 4, 2007 12:55 PM
 

Tracy said:

I am a special instructor (special ed. teacher) for early intervention and my son also receives EI (speech) in NY state.  What is happening to you should not be the norm at all!  We have the same thing in terms of a coordinator like Heather mentioned above- that should be your contact person to tell them the deal.  You totally deserve to have someone there when they say they'll be there- just like we want parents to be there when we make appts.  How disrepectful!  You can always take some time and come live in NY for a while- when a kiddo turns 3 services are paid for by the school- and possibly preschool if they need it cognitive/social-emotional help- but our preschool prices are way! lower.  

Hope it works out!

December 4, 2007 5:00 PM
 

jjlibra said:

Tracy is correct- in NY they can receive free services after they turn three. I would look into that where you are. I work in a preschool in Queens and around here the going rate is about the same or more than what you are paying- I wonder if Tracy lives upstate or something? maybe the rates are different there. go give 'em hell!

December 4, 2007 6:10 PM
 

Nancy said:

We use both private speech therapy (that we pay for) and county-sponsored speech therapy (that the school district provides) for our daughter.  We've had no scheduling issues with the private speech, but our regular speech teacher through the school was a sub and her contract was up last month.  We've had NO luck getting a replacement that can work with our (really not excessive) schedule constraints.  So we've gone almost a month without the "free" therapy.  It shouldn't be this complicated!

December 5, 2007 12:20 PM
 

GirlsGoneChild said:

Nancy, THANK YOU! Yes! Apparently, there's an overpopulation of kids who need speech therapy and not enough speech therapists to do their thang. Our therapist had an hour commute from her previous appointment and therefor would (when she showed up at all) arrive an hour, sometimes even two hours late. They're in the process now of *finding* us someone else. Which is the same thing they told us last week. And the week before. So frustrating!

December 6, 2007 12:18 AM
 

GirlsGoneChild said:

Oh and yes! Archer gets free preschool/therapy/everything until he's 3 and then we have to pay for it all out of pocket, unless he doesn't pass specific tests, etc. But we went in and they said since he's improving with his speech and doesn't have any other "issues" that need therapy, we most likely won't be eligible after 3. Which is a good thing, really. Still, silver lining is the free school for six months... That's a good $5,000 saved.

December 6, 2007 12:20 AM
 

Rebecca in WI said:

I've been following Archer's progress on your other blog for awhile now. (And I love your writting, btw.)

I have four children.  My oldest son is now 3 1/2.  He did not REALLY start speaking until he was 3.  We have a similiar program here called Birth to Three.  My inlaws gave me enough grief that I finally called, we had our consultation and our first sessions, etc...we were SO not impressed with the whole organization.  We didn't go back.  And lo and behold - just one month later I think his vocab. was better than our 12 year old! :-)  

Now my youngest, who just turned 2, is in pretty much the same place.  I'm not worried one bit.  I am confident that he will start talking when he is ready.

As I'm sure Archer will too.  Sometimes you just have to have a little patience.  Good Luck!

December 6, 2007 2:23 PM
 

Sheri said:

Glad to hear you got everything fixed.  I had the same problem with a speech therapist for our middle son.  She came when she felt like it.  Do you have a choice in who you use??? We got a list of therapists and had to pick from the list.  We found out that if the therapist worked for a clinic or the like, we had someone else to talk to than if they were independent contractors so to speak.  Good luck with all of this.

December 7, 2007 10:39 AM

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