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Somehow I have this fear and dread about our trip.  Did we mention that we're going out of town?  Finally, we have decided no matter what Ty's future is with us, that we are going to make this little guy officially a part of our family.  He will be introduced to our extended families, thus the non-stop flight to the West Coast.  Later this summer we are planning an up-state New York trip to hit Darrow's family.

 

Okay, so sometimes I can be the voice of gloom and doom, though not always, just sometimes, okay oftentimes.  Up until a few years ago, I traveled a lot for work.  Each and every time there was an undercurrent of stress that I carried with me up until the time I put my butt into the seat of the plane, then I could start to relax.  My fear now though, is that we as new dads will forget something, or since this is the first time traveling by plane with a kid in tow that we will inevitably make mistakes and everyone on that plane will hate us.  Here is the problem:

 

  1. Ty is officially a toddler, mobile, active and does not sit still.
  2. Ty is able when he is unhappy or hungry to let out the most blood-curdling scream that has ever emanated from any child, anywhere, ever in the history of children.
  3. Ty is a very good sleeper if he is placed in his crib with room to flip and thrash.  When in smaller spaces he tends to wake more frequently (please see item no. 2 above).

 

Wish us well.  We will be reporting back periodically on our travels.  Oh, did I mention we are on a night flight so most other passengers will be sleeping....make that trying to sleep. 

 

--J

 


Comments

 

leahsmom said:

Oh, good luck! I know that travels can be scary - and sometimes those nightmares come to pass - but sometimes, things work out great with the novelty of it all! (I love to read your posts, and you'll be missed while you're gone!)

May 21, 2008 1:11 PM
 

Melissa said:

You are brave.  There is no way I'd take my 15 month old on a plane right now!  Good luck, I'll cross my fingers and toes for you!

May 21, 2008 3:09 PM
 

MidLifeMama said:

I flew from Boston to Portland OR with my son when he was not quite 10 months old. Pre-walking that is. We survived relatively unscathed, but I don't even want to think about doing it with an 18 month old. YIKES. Maybe by traveling late at night he will just pass out from being tired. May the travel gods and sleep goddesses be with you!

May 21, 2008 3:10 PM
 

TheFosters said:

leahsmom - yes, scary, fun and this time...one hell of an adventure.

Melissa - Brave? Maybe. Crazy? Yes.

MidLifeMama - he's actually 16 months. Maybe that two months makes a difference? We hope so! If not, maybe we should bring along one of Ty's teddy bears to sacrifice to the gods and goddesses.

So, we're out of here and on to the airport!

May 21, 2008 3:55 PM
 

jojo said:

we flew from buffalo to the west coast (with layovers) with our 18-month old.  the key for us was keeping him occupied IN HIS SEAT and not taking him out of it until it was time to get off the plane -- we figured once he had a taste of freedom, we were toast.

good luck!

May 22, 2008 9:15 PM

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Juan and Darrow in Baltimore

Juan, an analyst, and Darrow, an IT manager- turned-social worker, are a Maryland couple working to adopt a child through the foster care system. An amazing baby boy was placed with them in the fall of 2007. Follow their quest to become his parents here, and catch the first part of their story on Darrow and Juan's personal blog, The Daddy Diaries.

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