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  • A Not So Happy Halloween

    I don't know if it's the full moon, daylight savings, Halloween, or perhaps all three -- and maybe a molar coming in? -- but Clio has been having a rough time of things lately.

     

    At the girls' preschool Halloween parade / show / party whatever thing last Thursday, she wouldn't wear her costume, started crying when her class went up on stage to sing "I'm a Little Pumpkin," and spent the rest of the event being held by her teacher. It was a little bit heartbreaking to see the pictures (Alastair was there; I wasn't) but I really did sympathize with the poor girl. It's no fun being forced to wear a costume if you don't feel like it. And getting up on stage in a big room in front of dozens of parents and kids is absolutely scary. (To sing a stupid song about gourds, no less.)  In fact, I'm sort of surprised more kids didn't melt down.

     

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  • A Hometown Halloween

    Alastair's hometown, that is, here in the leafy loveliness of Westchester county. We came down for the weekend, specifically for the unveiling of Alastair's grandmother's grave monument. She died around this time last year, and it's a (very nice, I think) Jewish tradition to visit the stone a year later. We said some words and prayers, and then the girls thought it would be fun to pick up the stones that we placed on Great Grandma's grave and move them to the other, neighboring graves and back again, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

     

    That night, we took the girls out for their first official trick-or-treating experience. Like last weekend, at the Halloween party, Clio refused to wear her tutu, so we had one ballerina and one modern dancer -- or perhaps she was a ballerina in rehearsal. More power to her, I say. And so, we set out into the lovely, suburban twilight, our family of four (Mommy had had a low day, but managed to rally) plus Abu and dogs, Aki and Niko. 

     

     

     

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  • Parenting through depression

    One of the worst parts of being depressed is not feeling like I'm fully present for Elsa and Clio. They are brimming with energy and enthusiasm these days, drinking in life in great big gulps. I hate not being able to give them the focus and engagement that they deserve. I hate feeling like I'm only half there.

     

    When I'm having an episode of depression -- like the one that sideswiped me two weeks ago and is just starting to lift a bit -- all I want to do is, well, nothing. Everything is such an effort. Just being hurts. Sleep is good. Lying on the couch watching TV (with the exception of campaign coverage) is OK, too. But entertaining a couple of toddlers who, these days, want mommy to do everything they do -- Mommy draw! Mommy read! Mommy legos! -- is signficantly more challenging. Akin to parenting while you've got the flu or a bad cold, but worse. Because it's not just your body that feels lousy; it's your brain, too.

     

    Last week, I kept thinking up titles for the "Bad Parent" essays I could write for Babble. Bad Parent: I let my Children Watch Back-to-Back Episodes of Curious George So I Can Lie on the Couch Moping and Sighing.  Bad Parent: I Count the Minutes Until Bedtime. Or even, Bad Parent: I watched "Mad Men" and Drank a Big Old Glass of Wine at 4 O'Clock in the Afternoon While my Children Crumbled Play-Doh All Over the Living Room Rug.

     

     

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